2. Absorb educational knowledge: The society is changing, the environment in which children grow up is also changing, and the way of education should naturally be constantly improved. As parents, we should be duty-bound to actively absorb new educational knowledge. In the traditional way of parenting education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education. Absorbing new knowledge can help parents jump out of their own growth experience and adjust their educational concepts in time.
3. Patiently listen to children: If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to children who don't listen to discipline is usually swearing. At this point, Mr. Cheng suggested that parents calm down first, try to be patient and ask the children what the reason is. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.
4. Really put down your body: Some parents always like majesty in front of their children and are used to treating their children with the above attitude. Teacher Cheng especially suggested that parents should really put down their bodies, respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a condescending tone and treat them as adults. Don't always say no to children, but give them multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions. If the child is old enough and there is no problem with his expression ability, he can also let the child come up with a solution or alternative.
5. Reasoning with children: In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.
6. Let the children experience: If the children always don't listen to adults, parents can let the children bear the consequences on the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.