Special expert of this column: Shen Jie, senior tutor of national family education.
Home is the most familiar environment for children. Children have lived with their families for several years, and they have established deep feelings and trust. Therefore, children are relaxed and comfortable at home, and their personality and feelings can be released and displayed to the greatest extent. Therefore, parents saw his bullying side.
The child becomes timid and unwilling to communicate with others in kindergarten, which proves that he has not established trust in teachers and other children, and has not established feelings for kindergarten. What parents should do is to communicate with teachers more, understand the children's situation in the park, and discuss countermeasures with teachers so that children can adapt to and enjoy the collective life as soon as possible. For example, let the teacher give him more opportunities to show himself, let him distribute toys, let him help the teacher do what he can, and encourage him to actively find other children to play games in class activities.
About four years old is a critical period for the formation of children's personality, and establishing a good family relationship is conducive to the development of children's healthy personality. .
An educator put it well: it is not clever children who are praised, but children who are praised are smarter. Usually, parents should encourage and praise their children more, help them build up their self-confidence, and make him a happy and confident boy, which is liked by teachers and children. At present, the cat said that the mental education platform is launching a "self-confidence" theme course, and parents are advised to study hard with their children.