1, the child did something wrong and didn't know it was wrong. For example, three or four-year-old children often put the buttons of their clothes wrong, put the soles of their socks on their feet, and wear two shoes inside out. Older children, especially boys, are naughty and competitive. Sometimes they tear their clothes, or just to find out, they tear up their newly bought toys ... all these are caused by their physical and psychological characteristics, and he is completely innocent. Parents should not blame their children too much for such mistakes, let alone say things that hurt their self-esteem. Such as "you are so stupid" and "you are so innocent". Constantly enrich children's life experience, stimulate children's desire to be proactive, learn more skills in the process of overcoming mistakes again and again, and learn to distinguish right from wrong. Children refuse to admit their mistakes when they do something wrong. Some children are very strong, stubborn, stubborn and self-righteous, unwilling to admit their mistakes, and afraid of losing face when they admit them. Some children never have the habit of admitting their mistakes, which is related to their parents' education, such as children falling down. When there is a dispute between children, parents often protect their children and say that others are not; Inconsistent educational methods among family members, etc. , are the reasons why children do something wrong and refuse to admit their mistakes. For such children, parents should not rush to investigate the size of mistakes, but should focus on how to help admit mistakes. First of all, parents must change the above incorrect practices, who is wrong. We should be realistic, don't blame others and confuse children's right and wrong concepts. Then, encourage children to tell the truth. Tell your child in a friendly way: "It doesn't matter if you are wrong, as long as you are brave enough to admit your mistakes and are willing to correct them, you are a good boy." At the same time, seriously pointed out: "If you do something wrong and refuse to admit it, it is a mistake! Mom and dad don't like such children. " After the child admits his mistake, he affirms his progress, then helps the child to analyze where the mistake is, its severity and adverse consequences, teaches the child how to do it, lets the child learn from it, and lays a foundation for correct behavior in the future. Children are afraid of being punished for doing something wrong and dare not admit their mistakes. Some parents' education methods are simple and rude, not shouting or beating and cursing, which often scares their children. I don't know what to do. When children do something wrong, they have to lie to cover up their mistakes. To help children overcome and correct this bad behavior, parents must change the bad education methods and adhere to positive education. Paternalistic style is unacceptable, and democratic family education is most conducive to the formation of children's good quality. Although children are young, they also have their own independent ambitions and self-esteem, and children sometimes do wrong things. It is a failed educational method for parents to beat and scold their children. Parents should take a calm attitude, analyze the causes of children's mistakes, pay attention to the principle of motivation and ignore the consequences, and forgive children's mistakes caused by physiological and psychological factors and lack of experience. After all, children are children, but we should severely criticize and never tolerate their behavior and moral mistakes, help them distinguish right from wrong, enhance their moral judgment and make fewer mistakes.