First, when children are young, the rich can get more high-quality educational resources, and their children have more opportunities to receive continuing education and higher education than the poor. After graduation, their children hold conservative ideas and look for less demanding jobs. Borrowing parents' resources to climb to the top of the golden pagoda within the system not only saved family fortune, but also consolidated its social status.
Second: it is fair for the poor to turn the corner through the college entrance examination, but do the same children, children from poor families and children from rich families enjoy the same educational resources? Can children who enjoy different educational resources get the same educational results? Forty years ago, rural students in Tsinghua and Peking University accounted for 70%. Now education is market-oriented, and educational resources are shared in proportion to assets. Can poor children be the same as rich children?
Third, a sound personality mainly comes from a warm and harmonious family style, good family education, the role of parents as role models and formal and systematic cultural education. Of course, we don't deny parents' investment in women's all-round development. However, only relying on school districts, aristocratic schools and various training courses may not be able to cultivate children with sound personality.
Fourth: On the surface, it is difficult for poor families to give birth to expensive children. On the surface, high-quality educational resources are gathering in big cities. Children from wealthy families can get better educational resources and have a greater chance of being admitted to prestigious schools. However, in fact, these so-called high-quality educational resources will not make much difference, because the examination syllabus is open to every candidate, and you have enough time to prepare. What really opens the gap is your values and outlook on life.
Fifth: each of us has different starting points and different goals. People have lived all their lives and focused on realizing the value they can achieve. Some goals are beyond your power, so you can't complain about social injustice.