Education begins at home, and the new semester has just begun. Every freshman's parents feel differently. Similarly, there will be a childlike joy and excitement in his heart. Because children enter primary school and enter an important stage of life. Every parent has the wish of "looking forward to the success of their children and their daughters". Every family is the place where people are born, the initial living environment and the place where people receive the "life start" education. Family is the environment in which people live for the longest time in their lives. Family education is a lifelong education for everyone. Although systematic school education will be implemented for a long time, it is only a stage in the whole life course. In all levels of school education, the implementation time is shorter. Family education is different. People receive prenatal education from birth, even before birth, until death. What kind of requirements, after a few years, is the child's development still the same? It's different! Few parents are disappointed in hope, but many parents are desperate in expectation. What is the reason? The answer is that family education is different.
Education begins at home. Family is the place where people are born, the initial living environment and the place where people receive the education of "the beginning of life". Family is the environment in which people live for the longest time in their lives. Family education is a lifelong education for everyone. Although systematic school education will be implemented for a long time, it is only a stage in the whole life course. In all levels of school education, the implementation time is shorter. Family education is different. People receive prenatal education from birth, even before birth, until death. Therefore, every parent is a child's first teacher and lifelong teacher. School teachers teach children for five or six years at most. However, parents have to follow their children all their lives, and everything they say and do affects them. "Teach" children, and children are the shadows and copies of their parents. Children's success can not be separated from the credit of their parents, and their unsatisfactory grades are also branded with their parents' marks.
Success begins with creativity. Recalling the process of raising children in 18 years, I deeply feel that if children want to succeed, they must grow up with them, that is, they must "study hard" with them, update their family education concepts and find the most suitable methods for them. As the saying goes, "vision determines the realm", success is possible only if the direction is right. The harder you work, the farther away you will be from success.
Today, with the proliferation of certificates, you can't be a driver without a driver's license, a teacher without a teacher's license, a lawyer without a lawyer's license, and a financial manager without an accounting certificate. However, there is no institution to train parents. You can't be a parent unless you get a certificate on how to be a qualified parent. When a new life comes, we naturally become parents. Faced with a new life, inexperienced young parents will inevitably be in a hurry and educate their children or parents to set an example. Traditional family education is a kind of inheritance. I will educate my children as my parents taught me, and some will follow the book. Some people cross the river by feeling the stones. Children's education is influenced by differences in environment, society and personality, so there will be many problems in the process of education, which parents cannot predict.
Another reason is that when we were growing up, our access to information was single, and the education we received was orthodox. Today's children are influenced by various kinds in this complicated society, and the amount of information is beyond your imagination. Once parents lack study, whether it is work or teaching, society and children will fall behind, and you will find that children are getting farther and farther away from you and have no common language. As parents, if they don't study, it is inevitable that their educational ideas and methods will be out of date, which obviously has little or no effect.
Children cannot be copied, and life cannot be inherited. We can't regret it, we can't try it, we can't take risks, as a poem by the Nobel Prize in Literature-winning Chilean poet (Gariel la mistral) wrote: We can wait for many things we need, but children can't. Their bones are forming; Blood is being produced; The mind is coming into being. We can't say tomorrow to the children. His name is today.
The first grade is another good opportunity for education. The child has been with you for six or seven years. Maybe you saw some surprises or worries. Hurry up and learn! Only by studying can life be wonderful. Only by studying can children be taught to bump less and blossom more. Only study is the way to be a good parent. I am convinced that these two sentences:
Education begins with family, and success begins with ideas.
The success of a child is the greatest success of a parent's life.
Education begins at home. A word from Dr. Barr: A child's mind is a strange land. You sow the seeds of thought and you will reap the habits; Sow the seeds of habit, and you will get moral harvest; Sow the seeds of character and you will reap the harvest of fate. Children are the continuation of our life and a pure land. We need to sow good seeds patiently and carefully in order to harvest the hope of life. Education should not start with teachers at school, but with parents at home.
I think it makes sense. As parents of children, it is their greatest wish to expect their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. How to cultivate children into useful people is a subject that every parent has to face. Not everyone can be a qualified parent, because parents are not born, and they also need to study and manage with heart. Often, some parents mistakenly think that all they arrange for their children is love, which is useless to face their children's education problems with a developmental perspective.
Faced with this problem, I sometimes get confused. How to better explore and cultivate children's learning enthusiasm is a top priority for parents. In the face of a disobedient child, parents may take different measures, such as strict discipline, strict wife management, persuasion and so on. However, different methods will lead to different results, have different effects on children's growth, and have different gains on their future destiny. Therefore, parents must try to figure out the strength of educating their children, adjust the ways and means of educating their children, and constantly adjust their mentality of educating their children. This is a necessary condition for their healthy growth.
Children's education begins with their parents and is constantly influenced by their parents from birth to adulthood. This is determined by the child's growing environment, and parents influence him every day. From trivial matters, from parents' daily habits, to parents' attitude towards work and study, and the means and principles of treating the world, his code of conduct is imperceptibly influenced. Unconsciously, he left the brand of his parents, or was influenced by them, and formed his own outlook on the world and life. Therefore, as parents, we must set an example for the healthy growth of our children, preferably a banner. Let children inherit Excellence, abandon vulgar things, let them be grateful and respect their parents, and make the world full of love.
In fact, the family is another university outside the school, which is longer than the period from primary school to junior high school to university. It may be twenty or thirty years, or it may be a lifetime. For those families whose children can become talents, their home is an educated national cheng kung university. From our side, we can see that many parents have achieved great success in educating their children, and all the children they have educated can become talents, which shows that there must be some suitable places in the ways and means of educating their children. Therefore, as parents who are committed to cultivating their children, they must think more and communicate more, improve their education level through learning, and let their children get all-round development at a higher education level.