This is what children must pay attention to in early education. It can be said that once a child's laziness becomes a habit, it is impossible for him to become very diligent in life. When he grows up, he may change a little because of life and other reasons, but that is only a little change. To outsiders, it's almost the same, but to himself, it's the limit. You can imagine how much a lazy person, whether a man or a woman, and people around him will suffer if they want to break his heart. His own life is also very mediocre, and it is difficult to make a difference.
Too headstrong, too stubborn
It is a good thing for children to concentrate on persistence, but it is not willful and stubborn. Parents should distinguish this. Persistent people mean not giving up easily, while wayward people don't listen to anyone's opinions, which is very unfavorable for entering the society in the future. A person who doesn't know how to listen to others' opinions and walk into the darkness will take many wrong roads in this life. If others are too headstrong, they will become aloof, while aloof people will spend their lives alone, happy in the sunshine and basically say goodbye to him. Don't think that DuDu's words are alarmist. If you don't believe me, study the people you know and see if this is the case.
egocentric
This is a common problem of modern children. A child in a family fell in love with the stars and the moon. It's really hard to hit, scold, scold, reprimand or even give an ugly face. Children can do whatever they want, as long as they are happy and say anything. This kind of child can be said to be an idiot who can't control himself when he grows up, unless his parents are never old and raise their children all their lives. Of course, you have to make sure that no one will be disobedient when your children enter the society. Is this a myth? Yes, this is a myth. How can we not be old, how can we protect our children all our lives, and how can we let everyone treat our children as treasures!
No manners.
The failure of such children's education is entirely the responsibility of parents. No child is born with no respect for the old and love for the young, and no child is born with no manners. Everyone will say that a person who has no manners and doesn't know how to respect the old and love the young is uneducated. When children are young, as parents, we should first teach them manners, respect the elderly, take care of children younger than ourselves, and know when to do and when not to do it, regardless of whether those people are your family or not. You must learn this. A person who walks in this society, no matter how high the family conditions are, what do you think such a child can develop into if he doesn't even understand etiquette? I'm afraid I can't even find the most basic ordinary life, can I?
An excessive love of money.
One of Bob's classmates in Dudu's family was still in the first grade of primary school, so he said to the teacher who tried his best to persuade him to study hard: My family has money. If you don't study hard, you can buy anything if you spend money on going to a university. Perhaps, this family does have some money, but what is your family's money compared with the rich? Besides, how do you know that your family will be rich from generation to generation? How many days can people who buy everything with money have "money"? When one day your child becomes a complete nerd, you will find how failed your life is. As the saying goes, it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. The best property for children is not the numbers in the passbook, but good habits and mentality.
Can't stand a little setback
Dudu's cousin, the only son in the family, finally found a job and made a girlfriend after finishing graduate school. People in their thirties should be married, but one day they committed suicide in their dormitory for no reason. Afterwards, the police intervened in the investigation and found that there was no other reason. His girlfriend had a little trouble with him, and he felt unhappy at work. He suddenly felt that he couldn't get out at the lowest point of his life, so he committed suicide so cruelly. According to my colleague, his cousin got the first grade since he was a child, and everything is the best. His family is very strict with him and must do his best. This is terrible. Children taught by modern education pay too much attention to grades and neglect psychological education. The children educated in this way are really dangerous. Think about it, it is impossible for a person not to experience ups and downs in his life, and he can't stand it or even live when he meets the storms. Isn't this kind of transaction too sad? Remember, we must teach our children that it is not terrible to fall, but the terrible thing is that they cannot get up.
Too sensitive and nervous
It's a good thing for children to know how to adjust their mentality, and it's not a thing to be careless all day, but what kind of personality do you think a child will be if he lives in an overly sensitive and nervous state all day? Once such a child enters the society, it can be said that there is almost no development in this life, and even a normal life will be extravagant. Whether it's colleagues at work or family members, being overly sensitive will only make Ta live in suspicion all day. What do you think is the significance of this life?