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Situational defense
Qualitative analysis: Family tension is due to differences and conflicts between parents about their two children.

Decision: 1. Listen patiently and understand why. Xiao Xin has always been the only child in the family, and her father has always wanted a second child. This somewhat affected her, fearing that her parents' love would be separated and she felt insecure. Analyze the advantages and disadvantages of two children to Xiao Xin.

2. Make good use of empathy. Tell Xiao Xin with my own personal experience that there is another loving brother and sister. Don't reject the arrival of younger brothers and sisters.

3. Rebuild the relationship and create harmony. Communicate with parents and tell them that the family conflicts between the two children have affected their mental health. The children are overwhelmed and can't feel the warmth of the family. Parents should pay attention to the idea of suicide. Tell parents gently that the idea of having two children can be communicated with Xiao Xin frankly and listen to Xiao Xin's ideas. Let the children feel the love of their parents. Even if they have two children, their love for Xiao Xin will not diminish.

4. Collective education promotes change. The head teacher pays more attention to the changes in Xiao Xin. Learn more about her thoughts. Carry out more parent-child activities in the class, let Xiao Xin's parents participate, and let Xiao Xin feel their love. Feel the warmth of teachers and the love of classmates. Relieve her anxiety.

5. Personal education should consider the collective influence. Carry out life education. Let students cherish life. I don't want to be suicidal when I encounter any problems or difficulties.