Dean Tan, the founder of Shangdao Family Education, believes that what parents should do is to go into their children's inner world, listen to their voices, feel their motivation, comfort their pain, think about their needs, awaken their wisdom, correct their habits, guide their children's direction, optimize their behavior, strengthen their beliefs and inspire them to pursue tenaciously on the road of health. To complete this process of soul incubation, we can't be eager for quick success, can't force orders, and can't be cynical. There must be perfect love, long-term patience, sincere heart, open mind, perfect conscience and persistent determination ... Only in this way can children open their hearts, tell secrets, reflect on themselves, gradually assume responsibility, strengthen their beliefs and be strong. If parents want to have this ability, they must practice, study and train first, so as to educate their children correctly and be lucky all their lives. Otherwise, it will ruin the children's future and the happiness of the second half of their lives as parents.