Many parents go into a misunderstanding in education and think they know their children. However, even if they live together day and night, even if they provide the best material conditions for their children, few parents can really enter their children's hearts. In life, many people often show interpersonal tension, lack of enthusiasm in life, lack of passion in work, lack of love between relatives and so on. This phenomenon is very common. Both Nuo Nuo-only and sentimentality in life are influenced by family background. In the decades-long parent-child relationship, if there is no good communication, the child's character will be infected for a long time, and the desire to talk will decrease day by day. In the end, all thoughts will be swallowed into his stomach and digested silently.

Dean Tan, the founder of Shangdao Family Education, believes that what parents should do is to go into their children's inner world, listen to their voices, feel their motivation, comfort their pain, think about their needs, awaken their wisdom, correct their habits, guide their children's direction, optimize their behavior, strengthen their beliefs and inspire them to pursue tenaciously on the road of health. To complete this process of soul incubation, we can't be eager for quick success, can't force orders, and can't be cynical. There must be perfect love, long-term patience, sincere heart, open mind, perfect conscience and persistent determination ... Only in this way can children open their hearts, tell secrets, reflect on themselves, gradually assume responsibility, strengthen their beliefs and be strong. If parents want to have this ability, they must practice, study and train first, so as to educate their children correctly and be lucky all their lives. Otherwise, it will ruin the children's future and the happiness of the second half of their lives as parents.