To educate children, we need to observe their bright spots carefully and be willing to accept their imperfections. It is possible that the child's imperfection is something we think he needs to correct, and we think the child needs to work hard for it. However, if children are healthy, caring, have their own ideas and like to do things, even if they are not perfect or excellent in a certain field, then we still need to be tolerant, stay with them and tell them not to worry.
Parents convey the greatest kindness to their children, and children can understand it. For example, some children study hard and make the biggest compromise according to their parents' arrangement, but his academic performance has not reached the expected progress and his academic performance is not ideal, but he may be very talented in painting and music. He likes to design by hand, which is also his view of his factory. He may not be perfect in his studies, but he has done well in his personal interests. So our parents can't ask their children to accept their imperfections according to their own wishes. This is the most successful education. He didn't mean to compromise with children, but we shouldn't force them to try their best to help them in a certain field that they are not good at. But if their children don't achieve the expected results and achievements, we should not blame them from embarrassment, but encourage them with gratitude.
Some children may not be the best in their studies, but they respect teachers, classmates, old people and young people, and parents. These are the bright spots of excellent quality, so that children can grow into kind and responsible people. In the process of education, parents are required to have good emotional and behavioral control and not to impose their ideas on their children. It is the most important thing to find the bright spot of children.
Children accepted by their parents are the most confident. Every child is a unique angel. Although they are not perfect on the road of growth, I hope they can bring laughter to every family. A child who is not accepted by his parents has low self-esteem and no confidence. He will keep a skeptical and negative attitude towards himself, which will have a very negative impact on his life development. Education should be diversified and students should be taught in accordance with their aptitude. Even in adulthood, sometimes things are not perfect, but we demand perfection from our children, which is very painful for them. In the process of education, parents' best love is to accept their children's imperfections, discover their bright spots, and let them have a confident heart to create their own future.