There is an old saying since ancient times? Children from poor families take charge early? Of course, it does not mean that the child's family is poor. It's just that the mother's daily job is to pick tea, and the children must follow her. Maybe no one can play with children alone. In this case, the child's daily fun is to go to the tea farm with his mother to pick tea leaves, so that the child can learn to help her share in the game, and the mother is also at ease to let the child do what she wants. I'm not afraid that anything is too dirty, or the tea will be damaged. My mother's non-interference education is worth learning.
? Whether a family is rich or poor, the family atmosphere and environment are particularly important. Don't care too much about the children. When the child has her own independent thoughts, you can try to get her to do what she wants. Don't be afraid that children won't do it. If they are afraid that their children will do something wrong, they will stop their behavior.
? I think parents should believe that children can try something when the environment is safe. Sometimes if you let go, you will find that children can do well.
? For example, my children were less than two and a half years old when they learned to ride bicycles. At first, she was strange. This requires the help of parents, and it is necessary to support children. At the beginning, she needed her parents to give her a sense of security and let her children know that their parents would protect me. In this state of mind, she can learn to ride a bike after school. On the first day, she fell. After comforting her, she continued to ride. At first, she could only ride half a lap. At this time, she must encourage her children. That's great. Children have built up their self-confidence. Even if they wrestle many times, it doesn't matter, I told her. Mom fell worse than you when she was studying. It doesn't matter. Let's get up and continue. Let's go
? A few days later, the child suddenly can ride a circle by himself. I was surprised and praised her for being too powerful. She can fly and run the next day. I didn't help her after she rode half a lap. (The bicycle has three rounds, haha) I followed her slowly, and she rode so fast behind, so I pretended not to catch up with her. She rode happily in front and said, mom, come and chase. At this moment, I believe that the child has a sense of accomplishment in his heart. To tell you the truth, my biggest opinion of grandma is that she takes care of her children too much. The child is over two years old, and she always follows closely. When she takes care of the baby, she can't cook and wash clothes. I can do anything. Just like yesterday, children have become very skilled in cycling. She also held the child and the car carefully. I said that if you let go, she has learned and doesn't need to hold it. If it was her child, she might have one. Inconsistent ideas)
When I say it, it becomes a spit. Stop. Of course, this is my own personal opinion.