? 13-year-old children are disobedient. What should parents do?
1, look at the problem from the child's point of view
Parents should be good at looking at problems from the perspective of children, which requires parents not only to lower their posture, but also to lower their mentality. Many parents are angry that their ideas are not accepted by their children. Parents should calm down and think about whether your suggestions, requirements or ideas are really suitable for their children. You might as well put yourself in the child's shoes from another angle.
2. Learn to approach children actively.
No matter how busy you are at work, you must spend some time with your child, play games with him, exercise, learn to approach him actively and be his bosom friend.
3. Try to let children do things by themselves
Children are methodical, have strong self-care ability and often have unique thinking ability. Children's quality will be reflected in their study and exert unimaginable potential. Therefore, parents should let go of their hands and feet as much as possible and let their children do their own things independently, which is very beneficial to their growth. There is a saying that you can help a child walk for a while, but you can't help him for a lifetime. Parents will get old one day, and there is always a way for him to go alone.
? /kloc-why don't children aged 0/3 obey?
As for family education, most children are used to disobedience. This sentence is quite right. At present, most families are 42 1 or 422 families. Grandparents' unrestrained doting and parents' accommodation, not giving the moon to the stars, adults do whatever they want, and ignore the unreasonable demands of children. Parents use this strong "love" to urge their children to get the love of grandparents. The wrong love with parents has formed a self-centered concept, which leads to children being seriously willful, overbearing, withdrawn and not good at accepting others.
The germination of self-awareness, in addition to family education, this 13-year-old child has a strong sense of autonomy, and everything should belong to him in his concept. They don't understand the meaning of sharing, and they don't understand the truth at this age. This kind of children, they think they have grown up, want to get rid of the control of adults, and want to show their appearance. However, their understanding is very weak, they can't tell right from wrong at all, and they lack the ability to know and judge things. This is why some parents say that they are obviously not spoiled. How come... No matter what causes children's willfulness, we should adopt correct educational methods and methods to help children develop good behavior habits.