? What should our parents do when their children enter senior three?
1, emotional counseling: be a child's psychological regulator.
For children, the college entrance examination is an important test of life, and it is inevitable that there will be all kinds of troubles and troubles, such as poor sleep, anxiety, stress and emotional sensitivity. As a parent, you will be influenced by your child's emotions to some extent.
Parents should first stabilize their emotions, be aware of their appearance, accept their existence and transform them in time, so as to face them more peacefully and help their children better. Parents can also remind and supervise each other to avoid the spread of negative emotions at home. When children have emotions that need to be vented, they can also be tolerant and tolerant, so as to alleviate their various emotions and feelings in the face of the college entrance examination, so that children can correctly understand and solve problems and find valuable views from positive aspects.
2, supervision and management: to be an auxiliary force for children's learning.
Parents may not be helpful in how to learn to prepare for the exam, but as their children's allies, how to help children better grasp the rhythm of preparing for the exam, how to arrange extracurricular time reasonably, and help urge children to set goals for each preparation stage. Inspection can actively participate. Parents should pay attention to the arrangement of the whole year of senior one from the beginning, middle school, end, winter vacation,100-the countdown of the "first mode" and "second mode" before and after each node. Understand the situation of children preparing for exams, and make small goals in line with the current stage at different stages to break through each one. Parents should give positive affirmation and affirmation when their children make progress, and be passive and slack.
Parents should also realize that high school students will soon be 18. Although they need emotional respect, understanding, support and recognition, they also need their own independent space, independent decision-making and sense of progress. The children of the college entrance examination team are the main force.
3. Expand resources: give full play to the advantages of people in the past.
Parents are people who passed the college entrance examination and pioneers of life. They should make use of these advantages, build up sufficient reserves of manpower, material resources, financial resources and knowledge base, and remind children to learn to make good use of external resources. According to their actual situation, nuclear family members should do a good job of division of labor and give full play to the support they can provide, such as whether they need to accompany students, catering, parent-child sports and so on.
Parents should work together on the basis of their children's consent to minimize the great changes in their original lives and let their children feel the greatest support; Remind students to deeply understand the teaching materials and establish their own knowledge network system; Guide children to take personal study notes and master effective and scientific learning methods; It is also a good opportunity to fill in the follow-up volunteer application by establishing a volunteer information database, collecting volunteer information for the college entrance examination in advance, choosing the intended major and school according to children's interests and planning direction, setting the initial direction together with children, and gradually clarifying the preparation goals.