A sense of "worry" is a necessary condition for success. Mencius told the world: "Then knowledge is born in sorrow and dies in happiness." A person's growth is nothing more than two factors: one is subjective and the other is objective, and neither can be neglected. Subjective factors are about people's own conditions, including physical factors, intellectual factors and non-intellectual factors, while objective factors include objective material conditions and family, school and social environment. Objective factors are of course very important to a person's growth. But it is often not dominated by individuals. In personal growth, it is only the relationship between eggs and temperature. Whether an egg can become a chicken depends on the egg rather than the temperature. No matter how appropriate the temperature is, stone eggs will not turn into chickens. Therefore, subjective factors and non-intellectual factors play a decisive role in people's growth. Non-intelligence factors, including motivation, interest, emotion, will, personality and other factors, are the floorboard of all psychological factors except intelligence in people's various activities. Cultivating the sense of hardship is actually to increase the education and cultivation of non-intellectual factors and enhance the cultivation of the sense of hardship. Lack of education will make people lose clear progress goals in their study and work, lack rational control when they are excited, be pessimistic and disappointed when they encounter setbacks, be complacent or blindly proud when they get a little achievement, and often plunge themselves into such confused negative emotions as anxiety, depression, loneliness, inferiority, hesitation, irritability, resentment and suspicion, and they cannot be "proud when they win, unwilling when they fail, persistent when they are in adversity, and persistent in adversity". It will have a negative impact on his ideological quality, moral quality, intellectual quality and physical quality, so it is difficult to achieve a career and cultivate himself into a useful talent for society.
With the awareness of "hardship", we must have the spirit of self-reliance and self-reliance. "The Internationale" sings: "There has never been a savior, everything depends on ourselves". To cultivate the sense of hardship, we must first cultivate the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement. Contemporary college students grow up in the era of reform and opening up and the society in which planned economy is transforming into market economy. The rules of market economy pay attention to competition, especially the competition of strength. On the one hand, the reform of college students' employment system has shifted from planned distribution to two-way choice between individuals and markets, and employment has shifted from seller's market to buyer's market. On the other hand, the only child of college students is the main component, and parents want their children to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes. Therefore, no matter in family, school or society, we all live in fierce competition. The reality of success or failure tells people in the society that to gain a foothold in the competition, we must have certain strength. The grim social reality requires every college student to have a sense of urgency and crisis from now on, to establish the spirit of seizing every minute, self-reliance and self-improvement, to dare to bear hardships and responsibilities, and to cultivate courage and confidence in life through hard work. We can't sit back and enjoy the happy conditions created by our parents. We should regard the love our parents give us as the driving force for our self-reliance.
We should have a sense of "worry" and cultivate good psychological quality. The university stage is a turning point in all aspects of college students' body, mind and knowledge. It is a preparation period for individuals to go to society and independently assume social responsibilities. It is also the golden period of talent growth and psychological maturity. Therefore, it is a critical period of life. Every college student should cherish the golden time of college, exercise himself in many ways and angles, and improve his psychological endurance. Because good psychological quality is the basis of having a sense of hardship. The more a person has a good psychological quality and sense of hardship, the greater the hope of growth and development, the more he can grasp the success of life and career, and the more he can contribute to society. We should consciously take the cultivation of good psychological quality as a compulsory course for our all-round development, as a driving force for our study and success, and as a necessary spiritual preparation for our society. As a generation of college students, we grew up in a comfortable social and family environment and grew up under the care of our parents and other relatives. There are not too many bumps, pains and tribulations in our life experience, lack of necessary tempering, carefree life and smooth study, which makes our psychological endurance particularly fragile and can not stand the test of setbacks and tribulations. Therefore, we should consciously exercise in this respect, enhance our sense of hardship and improve our psychological endurance. Through study and exercise, we have a strong perseverance, a fighting spirit that dares to struggle, and a hard-working style that dares to bear hardships. In this way, you can "sit on the Diaoyutai in spite of the storm" in your life journey. Take the test of all kinds of difficulties and setbacks calmly, advance towards the established goals and reach the brilliant peak.