Don't trust children.

Many parents have this cognitive misunderstanding, and feel that ignoring their children will ruin them. It is possible for children to kill and set fire, and it is lawless.

Think of children as machines.

Many parents especially like obedient children. I hope that children will do whatever they say, don't talk back, don't refute, parents will give instructions, and children will follow them. Think of the child as a machine. She will obey my orders. Otherwise, you will be beaten.

Parents regard themselves as gods.

Many parents have high moral standards for themselves. They want to be perfect in front of their children, regardless of their own needs and feelings, and are willing to sacrifice themselves for their children. I ask myself not to have emotions and lose my temper, and I hope I can be a perfect parent.