First, rural families pay more attention to children's education, but don't respect their development. Every new year, they will go back to their hometown to visit relatives. But at this time, they will find their children or kindergarten children start to do some primary school homework. To be clear, kindergarten is a primary school with a lot of content. In Bian Xiao's view, those contents should be completed in the first grade, because Bian Xiao used to be a kindergarten teacher. Therefore, it doesn't make any sense to let children know the law of a child's development and receive education too early, but let them start writing some primary school pinyin and Chinese characters, as well as some mathematical calculations in kindergarten. And parents also attach great importance to their children's education. Every time I go to school, I can hear my parents ask their children how much you learned today and how many Chinese characters you wrote today. However, this directly ignores the development of their other factors. Children mainly play in kindergartens. They cultivated some habits and skills in the process of playing, and now they are directly stale.
Second, it will make children tired of learning and even have rebellious psychology. You should know that these are not very good for children. A child can change according to his own needs, but the family environment has a great influence on him. He can't grow up carefree in this environment. I have received moral education since I was a child, and some parents pay too much attention to their children's love and even become spoiled. Moreover, for those rural families, there is no scientific way to educate their children, and most of them are mainly based on beating and cursing. As long as the children are disobedient, they will beat their aunts. I think children can listen to their parents in this way, but from the perspective of education, such words will only aggravate their rebellious psychology and will not make them really obedient.