It is true that Gu Ailing's educational resources are the ceiling of resources that neither you nor I can touch. However, for ordinary families, is it of no reference significance at all?
China is as rich as an enemy, and there are many princesses at home. But like Gu Ailing, how many people have no gender stereotypes and have not been suppressed by male chauvinism?
Instead of teaching her daughter to be clever and sensible and forbear, and to sacrifice for others' situation, Gu's mother pays more attention to teaching Aileen:
1. Be brave, dare to challenge your fears, and fall in love with this feeling in order to achieve a more capable self.
2. Self-confidence is an attitude of completely accepting yourself. Believe that you are the greatest potential of being a human being.
3. ambition. Judging from the food chain of social development, her mother is close to the top and can see the relationship between people and the law of social development more thoroughly. Only when she has ambition first can she spur herself to challenge higher goals, let herself live more freely, and enjoy the pleasure of being a human being in the human society where resources and human beings are unbalanced.
Of course, in addition to the above powerful thinking, mother Gu also passed on excellent family genes, strong and rigorous logical thinking ability, thinking habits, work habits and study habits to Aileen completely.
Gu mother knows that these are the important guarantees for the road of life to extend in all directions. Perhaps, if you have strength, you can see through it, but if you see through it, you have strength.
The development of society will eventually move forward. Women's status and thoughts will eventually improve. By then, there will be thousands of Gu Ailing.