How to correctly educate girls about sex? As the child grows older, he will think more about the world. These questions, in his mind, raised countless question marks. In order to satisfy his curiosity, he had to ask his parents for help. So how to give girls the right sex education?

How to carry out correct sex education for girls 1 1, sexual physiology education.

Sexual physiology education is to educate girls about the physiological structure and hygiene of reproductive organs. At present, the fact that adolescent girls have more and more sexual behaviors during menarche reminds people that education in this area needs to be strengthened urgently.

2. Sexual psychological education

Many surveys show that the sexual maturity of teenagers in China tends to be earlier than the 1950s and 1960s. The forward tilt of sexual maturity brings about the early appearance of sexual psychology. Cognitive psychology believes that the information about sex has greatly increased, and people's sexual concepts have also changed greatly. All these things frequently stimulate girls' brains and reproductive glands, and push forward the bud of sexual physiology.

It must also promote the development of sexual psychology. However, the development of social productive forces and the increasing complexity of social life have delayed the social psychological maturity of girls. Under the condition of immature social psychology, they lack scientific understanding of physical development and sexual psychology germinated by physical development, and are easy to fall into blindness.

3. Sexual moral education

In the adolescence when girls' outlook on life began to form, instilling such sexual ethics in them will help them distinguish right from wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, and establish a sense of morality and shame. By mastering the concept of sexual ethics, they will have a code of conduct for communicating with the opposite sex, self-respect and self-love, and be dignified and generous. In the face of the inner turmoil of youth, they can manage themselves with reason. In the face of sexual stimulation and harassment from society, they can lead an honest and clean life, do not go with the flow, and show strong self-control.

How to conduct correct sex education for girls? The earlier you start, the better.

Generally speaking, boys are exposed to soft pornography and erotic films at the age of ten to twelve; Girls are about eleven to thirteen years old, so many education experts advise parents to start sex education for their children before that.

Don't make a fuss

It is generally found that when their children have this problem, many parents will make a fuss and can't keep calm. In fact, there is no need for everyone to be too frightened and worried. After all, everyone will experience these things, but they will experience them differently because of different times. If parents can't calm down, children will feel anxiety and fear, which is not conducive to their physical and mental health.

Soothe children

First of all, parents should let their children who are about to enter adolescence or have already entered adolescence know that it is normal to have curiosity in this respect. Parents should also create a safe and private environment and answer their children's questions in a tolerant and reasonable way. The ultimate goal is to make children understand that pornography is not equal to sex education and love is not equal to sex.

Open question

Parents can ask each other open-ended questions, but parents should pay attention to asking their children's classmates, friends or people around them what they have done in sex, on the one hand, to find problems, on the other hand, to correct their children's misconceptions.

distinguish right from wrong

Parents should let their children know right and wrong, what is pornography, what is sex education and what is love. Let children know that pornography is only for profit, which is unhealthy for children and can only be contacted by adults. At the same time, parents should also let their children distinguish between the behavior in erotic films and the behavior about "sex" in reality, so as to avoid the child's stupidity leading to bitter fruit.

Protect yourself

Parents should let their children know that they can't touch sensitive parts of their bodies, so that they can feel at ease about being sexy and let them know that they don't need their bodies to do things they don't want to do. How to protect yourself if something happens against your will?

Encourage children to talk.

Parents should tell their children that they will try their best to help you solve anything you don't understand or embarrass you, and provide advice.

Popularize relevant laws

Due to the development of the Internet and the prevalence of soft pornography, it is necessary for parents to popularize legal knowledge and launch a series of lectures on these legal issues about "sex" behavior, not asking children to know, but asking them to know some relevant legal knowledge.

Don't set limits for children.

In this regard, parents should not put pressure on their children and unilaterally set restrictions. If they put pressure on their children and unilaterally set restrictions, parents will lose the opportunity to communicate with their children.

How to conduct correct sex education for girls 3 Generally speaking. You can buy some information about students' sexual knowledge. You can let children know something first. Before you give your child a one-sided explanation, it will be much better for him to have a vague concept.

It is an arduous task for children to form a healthy sexual attitude and understand sex scientifically, which requires considerable skills and wit. The best way is to start sex education from childhood and stick to it in the principle of openness and outspoken. This subtle and long-term educational task is most suitable only if it is provided by parents. Of course, this does not rule out the popularization courses of sexual knowledge carried out by schools.

However, it must be admitted that a considerable part of our parents are influenced by traditional education, and they are unwilling to tell their children about sex. Moreover, most parents themselves lack the necessary knowledge, which requires some professional institutions to help them learn the necessary skills and knowledge through professional consulting institutions and change their parents' concepts and attitudes.

A good sex education plan must include three parts:

1 tells the principle and process of reproduction-the basic structure of human body, the physiological differences between men and women, and the basic process of sexual behavior between men and women.

2, sexual morality, sexual attitude, sexual responsibility education-children should know that irresponsible and rash sexual behavior is a disaster.

3. Sexual psychological education-let children know the psychological impact and consequences of sexual behavior and sex-related behaviors.

We must pay attention to these five principles:

First, calm down. It is natural for children to be curious about sex. Occasionally, there is no need to make a fuss about some sexual behaviors, otherwise it will cause trauma.

Then, face it. Please face the child's problem directly and don't hide it. You cann't pick it up from the garbage or anything

Say it again, standard. Using professional terms from an early age will help children understand the nature of things without generating some negative emotions.

Then there is: respect. This needs no explanation. I take my child seriously as a person, a curious person and a normal person.

Intimacy is not only in sex education, but also in many parenting methods, emphasizing the establishment of intimate parent-child relationship. With close relationship and trust with children, your words will be more weighty and effective.