How to discipline a rebellious child? 1, communicate with children more and learn more about what children want. Accept the child's temporary avoidance behavior and emotions such as fear and anxiety, and let the child speak his or her feelings and thoughts frankly without making any judgment, so as to understand the real motives and difficulties behind him or her. Seek to hold a meeting of family members, reach a consensus on children's schooling, and solve every problem that affects children's schooling.
2. Put an end to bad entertainment sources that interfere with children's learning. How many children are willing to go to school if they don't go to school and watch TV and play games at home? Therefore, in order to let children return to the classroom, it is necessary to temporarily ban these amusement resources, or to open them conditionally and restrictively.
3. Jointly run schools and give full play to the roles of teachers and classmates. Seek the support of the school, especially the class teacher. You can actively communicate with schools and teachers, understand children's study life, help children establish good interpersonal relationships, or help solve problems encountered in study life. If your child is at home on holiday, if your child is physically capable, please insist on self-study, or ask teachers, good classmates or friends to make up lessons, and don't fall behind too much in your lessons. Qi Xin joined forces to help the children go back to school.
4. Parents should pay attention to it and form a united front. Strive to establish a good parent-child relationship with children; Establish parental authority, formulate family rules, and don't let children back down.
The harm of children's rebellion and weariness of learning 1, anorexia seriously affects academic performance and forms a vicious circle. For anorexic children, if their parents can't meet their expectations, they will give up on themselves. If their parents urge them to study again, children will hate learning even more, which is a vicious circle.
2, forming a vicious circle, affecting interpersonal relationships. Children with poor academic performance are easily discriminated by teachers and classmates, so they are more likely to give up on themselves and mix with partners who have common experiences. Some even have revenge mentality, and there will be behaviors such as resistance, mischief and bullying of weak students, which will seriously affect normal interpersonal communication.
3. It's easy to give up and lose confidence. Children who are tired of learning usually don't want to learn well, but lack self-confidence in learning. Poor academic performance made them lose confidence. Serious will drop out of school, but the impact of anorexia on these children is far more than that. Frustration in study will cause a serious psychological shadow. These children often lack self-confidence in adulthood, and interpersonal relationships will be more frustrated in love.
4. Causing psychological shadow and affecting physical and mental growth. At present, anorexia has become a common phenomenon among middle school students, but many parents only know the harm of anorexia to their children's academic performance decline. According to the counselor of the Department of Deep Education, in fact, children will not only lead to a decline in academic performance, but also affect the study of other students, causing bad atmosphere to the society, which will directly lead to depression, anxiety, depression, dizziness, insomnia and other diseases, affecting physical and mental development, so parents must pay enough attention to it.