April 13 "Light of Life"

Attended two lectures on family education in a row!

1. Children's problems are not born, but learned at home. Compared with my girl, I suddenly found a lot of my own shadow, and cultivating children is more about self-cultivation.

2. In the scene of Satya's survival mode in the course, when the opposite child made a flattering gesture at me, tears collapsed instantly. Is it too harsh on children, so that it is not easy for young hearts to bear all this silently?

When children have deviant behavior, don't focus on the behavior itself, learn to explore the reasons behind it and solve the problem from the source. Sometimes we adults think this is not true.

The course is more about reflecting on your words and deeds and educating children to start with perfecting their personality. The child's growth is irreversible, accelerate the growth and be a mother who really knows how to love her!

1. In the last lecture "Let Love Go Home", the teacher shared Satya's four survival modes and self-evaluated. She felt that she was a complex of flattery and accusation, but in the dialogue with coco, she was sure that she was accusing, which was quite gentle, but it was not! Strive for consistency of character!

2. The video of "Mom Remote Control" in the classroom touches people's hearts. The children are ours, but not ours. They are the masters of their own lives and respect their ideas.

3. Five kinds of psychological nutrition

Accept unconditionally; You are the most important thing in my life at this moment; A sense of security; Affirmation, praise and recognition; Learning, cognition and model;