Why do you say that? There is a famous case: Mike is a little guy who can move at any time. He doesn't walk well from one place to another, but climbs, bends or rushes. Mom took him to see a psychiatrist. She mentioned that Mike, who couldn't swim, once fell into a nearby pond.
The whole family was extremely nervous about this, but when she talked about this horrible past, a pure and happy smile appeared on her cheeks.
She said, "Mike was resourceful and found the pond seven blocks away from home." Although he needs a parent to lead him in, he can persuade the security guard to go in. "
When describing Mike's other lucky escapes, her mother showed her potential pleasure and appreciation and passed it on to Mike in a very subtle way. Smart Mike also noticed that his "cheating" behavior could be appreciated by his mother, so his risky behavior appeared repeatedly and escalated.
It can be seen that mother is worried on the surface, but she is happy subconsciously, because in her heart, she thinks boys are smart and adventurous. Finally, she accepted the therapist's explanation and showed a serious and ungrateful attitude in later occasions, which made her take a big step in controlling Mike's dangerous behavior.
Conclusion: It can be seen that children are adventurous. In addition to giving him reasons, parents should also control their own behaviors and let their children attract the attention of adults in other safe and better ways, instead of always taking thrilling behaviors.
Boys like adventure and excitement. Parents should not be too nervous, which will kill their children's nature. I think parents can do this. If children run around on the road, you can show them some videos about traffic safety, and you can also show them how traffic accidents happen and how to use water and electricity, so that they can learn safety knowledge in happiness, instead of parents repeating "no".