Perhaps in the minds of many parents, education from school is very important. In fact, parents are definitely the first teachers of children, so family education is also essential. Some children are very short of family education, which will not only affect their character, but also have a great impact on their three views and hinder their future. So as parents, we should pay special attention to family education.

One of the main reasons for the lack of family education is that parents have little company with their children. Because of the lack of companionship, the process of education is missing. Some of the lack of family education is caused by parents' subjective factors. Perhaps for parents, children are their own accessories, no matter how they beat and scold, even if they wronged their parents. Including parents' failure to compare their children with their own children, it will also lead to children's lack of education and even lead to serious comparison psychology or inferiority complex.

How to deal with the lack of family education? In order to cope with and solve the lack of family education, it is very important to accompany first. Companionship here refers to effective companionship, not just sitting next to children to solve problems. Such companionship can bring parents and children closer together. The second is to give children enough respect, instead of treating children as their own accessories or trophies. Even if sometimes the results are not ideal, we should give our children some encouragement instead of blindly criticizing and belittling them. Such children will only become more and more cowardly and fail more and more.

Attaching importance to emotional intelligence and three views is partly because parents attach too much importance to intelligence and achievement, which leads to the lack of family education. Therefore, in order to make up for the lack of family education, we should pay more attention to children's emotional intelligence and the cultivation of children's three views, rather than just IQ. Children's emotional intelligence and outlook on life are not only important for their future study and life, but also important for their future work and life, and even their importance has exceeded their IQ or ability. At the same time, emotional intelligence and three views are also helpful to the development of children's personality.

The lack of family education is not caused in a day or two, nor can it be made up in a short time. Therefore, parents should have full patience and long-term companionship and understanding for their children. It takes a long time to make up for the shortage of family education.