In today's society, parents' investment in children's education accounts for a large part of family expenditure. At the same time, quite a few parents think that everything else has become less important than their children's education. ? For many parents, the biggest thing in life is the education of their children.

Parents should pay attention to their children's education and their spiritual growth. Some parents ask their children according to their own moods and expectations, without considering their wishes and inner feelings, which will hurt their hearts.

Compared with how much glory our children's success brings us and how much achievements we can achieve, children are the most important, because their own growth will be the carrier of all achievements and gains. Therefore, what we should give our children is 100% love and care, recognition and praise, not criticism and accusation. Children who grow up with love and praise will be sunny and full of confidence in life.

We should know not to punish children for an unintentional mistake and not to hurt their self-esteem. While putting children first, we should also pay attention to the following aspects.

First, let children learn to share.

Children are the wealth of the family. Parents regard their children as "princesses" and "princes" and unconsciously put them in the most important position. But parents should not spoil their children, and let them know that they should honor the elderly and respect their parents. There are delicious things that are not shared by one person. Here, let children learn to share and experience happiness.

Second, let the children have others in their eyes.

Children are a treasure in the eyes of their families, but children who integrate into a group are likely to be self-centered. Therefore, when getting along with children at ordinary times, let children understand the truth of caring and understanding others.

Third, don't let children have a sense of superiority that is very important to them.

Let the child understand that the reason why we value things related to him is that we hope he can get good growth. It is also important to take care of grandparents and other elders, and the work development of mom and dad is also very important. It's just that his family wants to watch him grow up. Therefore, parents should let their children learn to respect everyone at home.