1, try not to beat or scold children. Don't beat and scold children when they make mistakes. Learn to control your emotions and suppress your anger. You can tell your child how you feel at the moment and let them know that you are dissatisfied with his behavior just now. For example: "Your mother is very sad!" "I'm not satisfied with what you do! I don't like you like this! " Wait a minute. This will not only help to calm their emotions, but also help children to think from the perspective of their parents, thus promoting their reflection.

2. Punish children in a natural way. In fact, children's mistakes are nothing more than trivial matters. Parents don't need too much criticism and let their children bear the wrong consequences themselves. For example, if milk is spilled, you can't drink it. At the same time, let the children clean up the spilled milk themselves; If the toy is broken, it can't be played. At the same time, ask him to promise to protect his toys in the future, otherwise he won't buy him new toys in the future ... This will not only make the children understand the possible consequences of their mistakes, but also make them feel remorse in the process of bearing the consequences, which will help prevent them from making similar mistakes again.

3. Don't get emotional. If a child has to be beaten, parents should first stabilize their emotions and calmly face their children's problems. Beating children when they are emotional will only be counterproductive. Children will only focus on their parents' intense emotions and will not think that it is their own.

Wrong. Therefore, if you have to hit your child, you must stabilize your emotions and let your child know that you are paying for your mistakes, not for your parents' bad emotions! Wish you a happy life!