We may not accumulate too much property or fame in our life, but every parent has accumulated some good experience and conduct through life.

I firmly believe that parents are children's first teachers, parents' words and deeds, parents' personality, parents' habits and so on. Will subtly affect children.

It seems that educating our children well is not only a teacher's business, but also the most important career in our lives.

Whether babbling or growing up, parents are always role models for children to learn and benchmarks for their efforts. Parents will be themselves, and children will naturally not be too bad.

0 1. Parents' words and deeds affect children's conduct.

The teacher teaches puzzles. The confusion here is not only the teachers, but also our parents.

Teachers are the ocean to impart knowledge, and parents are the benchmarks for our life-long study.

Parents are the first teachers from birth to babbling, and they are the objects that children rely on to imitate.

Therefore, parents' daily words and deeds, parents' moral character and energy transmitted by parents will directly affect the shaping of children's next character.

Parents are indispensable objects in children's growth. Children, whether young or adult, will unconsciously regard their parents as role models for learning. Parents can only establish a good family style for their children by being themselves, paying attention to moral cultivation and being generous. This is the best gift for parents to give their children.

On paper, I don't know how to do it, and so does the education of parents to their children. No matter how gorgeous the theory is, if you don't set an example and put it into action, it is just an armchair strategist, which is meaningless to the child's growth process.

How a person's personality plays an important role in the future growth path. Good character, the road will be smoother and smoother, poor character, great ability, and not far away.

Parents are the best benchmarks for children. Parents must obey the rules and cultivate their own character, and their children will be assimilated imperceptibly.

02. Parents' responsibilities affect children's sense of responsibility.

As the saying goes:

What kind of person do you want your children to be? You must do this first.

If parents have a sense of responsibility, children will not shirk their responsibilities and even complain about life and laziness.

A responsible child who loves life must have a pair of responsible parents behind him.

If parents are lazy by nature, unfilial to the elderly, shy away from work, and fail to fulfill their due responsibilities to the family, they will only seek pleasure and like to shirk when encountering problems.

Such parents are full of resentment, complaining about heaven and fate, blaming others for being lazy and not working hard, not reflecting on themselves and striving for progress.

Inevitably, it is difficult for them to understand what responsibility and responsibility are when they bring up their children. They will only spend their lives in mediocrity.

Parents in the family, this is playing different roles and different division of labor, and ultimately bear different responsibilities.

Fathers should work hard, be considerate of their wives' housework and the hardships of taking care of their children, and take the initiative to share more.

Wife, although it's hard to keep a house at home, you should also understand the difficulties of your husband's hard work outside, understand more, support more and blame less.

A family has different division of labor, but its responsibilities are unambiguous. We will create a harmonious, warm and loving happy family together.

Children who grow up in such a family atmosphere must be content and grateful. Under the influence of such responsible parents, children will surely become more and more responsible.

When there is a problem, parents should set an example for their children and take the initiative to take responsibility, instead of avoiding shirking the problem, thinking calmly and making solutions. In this way, children will be responsible for their actions and words when they see their parents take the initiative to take responsibility.

In a family, parents should be more tolerant, less quarreling and complaining, take the initiative to solve problems and never let them ferment. If they can communicate and negotiate, they will not blame and abuse, let the children learn and grow happily in a warm, loving and harmonious family, and let the children go up a storey still higher both physically and psychologically!

03. The quality of parents affects the growth of children.

I remember a news report about this news.

A child, eating snacks in a subway car, deliberately spilled debris on the passengers next door.

The passenger next door couldn't stand it anymore and finally complained a few words.

Faced with this situation, the father of the child not only did not apologize, but said that the child was not sensible. Is it necessary for you as an adult to haggle over every ounce?

Someone coaxed him, and the child's father turned his head and scolded him.

After reading this report, I was not only embarrassed, but even reminded me of "Xiong Haizi"

Someone once said: Behind every Xiong Haizi, there is a low-quality parent.

In the carriage, the father could have taught the children not to litter and influence others, but he swore. Obviously, parents' quality is not high, so it is not surprising that Xiong Haizi is so rude and unruly.

A person's education is a major event to be practiced in his life.

Children's upbringing, to a large extent, comes from parents. If parents are of high quality, know how to think of others, do not destroy the public environment, do not occupy shared resources, and know how to put themselves in the children's shoes, they are also setting a good example for their children. With such high-quality parental education, the upbringing of children is naturally no problem.

When a child is born, it is like a blank sheet of paper. The quality of parents is an important factor in graffiti.

It is better to be poor and rich than to be educated.

What determines how high a person flies is not your ability, but your personality and education.

A capable person, coupled with education, will be recognized, praised and respected in the society, will be welcomed wherever he goes, and will certainly do things well.

Parents without quality will never raise educated children. I hope every parent can do a good job of himself, improve his words and deeds, conduct and quality, and then educate and guide his children to achieve the true meaning of education!

Confucius said that "abandoning the old and taking the young", regardless of the old, only cares about the children, "an ominous home." Now the whole world does not emphasize filial piety. The old people are very poor and are all in nursing homes. Then the child became more and more arrogant and became a little emperor and queen. And a family without filial piety is bound to fail, so it is unlucky. Moreover, it is very valuable that we in China emphasize that children should be filial through the Law on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly. There is no such legislation in the world. It can be seen from these signs that 2 1 century is the century of China people. As long as filial piety is not emphasized, all mankind has no future. Why? Because filial piety is the origin of love. How can a person be happy without knowing what he loves? How can mankind have a future? But the origin of love is filial piety, which is the root and foundation of virtue. Zhu Dexiao comes first. If you are not filial, this family will be ruined. One of the most important virtues of our Chinese nation is to respect the old and love the young. This tradition has been passed down from Xia, Shang and Zhou dynasties for thousands of years, but it is not doing well now. We should understand that the elderly have devoted their lives to the family and society, and it is called ingratitude to disrespect them. How can there be children without old people? Without the efforts of the elderly, how can there be modern achievements? Moreover, the elderly have rich life wisdom and experience, so people who respect the elderly can pass on these precious wisdom and experience. Moreover, people are always rewarded, and it is worthy of our respect that he can live a long life.

Therefore, there are three kinds of human blessings, all of which can be taught to our children. Etienne, Jing Tian, Sadyean. We appreciate the old man's dedication to life and read his kindness. We respect the old man and then pass on his wisdom and experience. The friends a person makes are many years or even twice as old as him. Such people must be more mature than their peers. You can observe them carefully. Therefore, respect is rewarded with great happiness, and arrogance and contempt for the elderly are blessed.