As a parent in recent years, I deeply understand that it is not easy to bring up children. It is not that there is a good result if you pay, and there must be no good result if you don't pay. So what should we do? so this is it？ Still want to give up? Many parents may have had similar thoughts. But this book tells us what to do now. We parents must realize several problems before we can talk about how to raise children. First, raising children is God's promise to parents, not to family. Second, parents must pay to God, not to their families. Raising children requires God's wisdom and methods, not a set of methods invented by people themselves. Fourth, the change of children from the inside out requires the grace of God. ?
This book introduces some good methods and means of Bible education, from how to establish authority at the beginning to admitting mistakes and forgiving at the end, every point is worth learning and practicing. Looking back on my past self-discipline towards children, I feel that relying on my own blood gas has no good effect. Many times, I only pay attention to external behavior and ignore the internal character building. Sometimes in order to satisfy my appetite and my own mind, I give orders to my children and let them learn the way I face others. Many times when facing children, what they lack is empathy. They always judge their children's behavior with their own eyes and standards, making them feel that their parents don't understand their ideas and keep their distance from us. Not enough love and tolerance make them feel that their parents are harsh and dampen their enthusiasm for doing things. Sometimes they love blindly and have no boundaries, so that children don't know what to do. More often than not, there is no perseverance, which leads to many rules and habits that children have not developed. This is the dereliction of duty of parents! Many things are difficult for parents to do, and it is incomprehensible to ask children to do them. I often make such mistakes myself. Another improper thing is to comment on my child's shortcomings in front of others and compare them with other children. This is a common mistake made by parents. In addition, they are stingy with their children's good things, and they are not praised or affirmed. The child has no enthusiasm for doing it well. Parents belonging to the clan need to study hard, repent before God and raise their children. We are housekeepers, and we have to pay our bills before God one day, so we need God's mercy and humility and obedience before God. What can parents do if God doesn't work? If God does not have mercy, we are all useless vessels, so please continue to have mercy on the Lord. Although we have broken our promise and we are not good, the Lord is faithful and eternal, and we care about everything about him. Please keep us and be kind to us in our future work of teaching the next generation.