Parents share family education speech (1) Dear teachers and students,
Hello, everyone:
Family education is a discipline and an art. Mastering it skillfully is like a spring breeze and drizzle, which subtly moistens children and makes them grow sturdily. If the method is not proper, it may be like a storm, which will make children stop. Whether family education is proper or not directly affects the healthy growth of children to some extent. Therefore, mastering appropriate family education methods is urgently needed by many people as parents.
First, the family environment edification method. For children, the family they live in plays a vital role in their growth. Whether psychologically, ideologically or directly in their studies, the family environment has an extremely important influence on them, which can be positive or negative. As parents, to create a good family education environment, parents who require students to take the lead; Family members have equal status, and children also participate in major family decisions. This will create a good family education environment.
Second, words and deeds (teaching). In family education, teaching by example means educating children through language. It is one of the basic methods of family education. There are many specific forms of oral communication (teaching), such as chatting or heart-to-heart, persuading children to do something, assigning tasks orally, communicating with children, leaving messages, establishing family rules and so on. Words and deeds are an educational method for parents to set an example for their children and make demonstrations to educate and drive them. Parents should first do what their children are asked to do and educate and guide their children with their own actions.
Third, listening and communication methods. When children tell their parents about their difficulties or setbacks, parents should actively listen, find out their true thoughts, help them solve problems, and take this as an opportunity to establish a relationship of mutual trust with their children, thus becoming their real friends.
Fourth, encourage (praise) and punish (guide) methods. Family education should adhere to encouragement and positive education, supplemented by criticism and punishment. Adhering to encouragement and positive education means fully affirming their achievements and progress, especially in overcoming shortcomings and correcting mistakes, even a little, and giving them appropriate rewards. Punishment guidance method is also an effective method, but this method should not be abused. Mainly used when students have bad words and deeds. But this method is not in the traditional sense? A dutiful son is born under the stick? The way of education is to combine criticism and punishment with education and guidance. At the same time, moderate punishment also makes children understand the cost of making mistakes, which can temper students and increase their understanding of life.
Fifth, persuade education law. Mainly by presenting facts and reasoning to children, help children distinguish right from wrong, improve their understanding ability and form a correct cognition.
Sixth, the suggestive reminder method. It is a good educational method for children to make mistakes. When children have a certain cognitive ability, they are often reminded by hints, so that children can foresee possible mistakes and play an educational role.
Seventh, the example influence method. It is to use the deeds of great men or the excellent qualities shown by successful people around you to guide them positively, so as to achieve a subtle educational effect.
Of course, the methods of family education are endless, and there is no fixed method for family education. There is no difference between good and bad methods and good and bad methods. The important thing is to be effective.
Parents share family education speeches (2) Dear teachers and students:
Good afternoon, everyone:
Parents are children's first teachers, and good family education is of great significance to children's growth. The following are some experiences told by a parent.
From my parents' initial enlightenment education to educating my daughter now, my life experience tells me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now I will talk about my experience on the issue of family education.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents and indifferent to others and society. We should treat children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how big their mistakes are. I have always adhered to this educational principle for children, so that they can get all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor under the education of school, society and family, and at least become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. ? Genius? Can't create, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents, and use their own efforts to follow their own life path, children may succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. ? It's not easy to be a parent, and it's even harder to be a good parent? . That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, work hard? Learn to care? . Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate to their children practical activities to improve moral quality in line with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living in quarrels, complaints, preferences and lack of warmth, will he learn to argue, blame, envy and indifference? What is this reality? Teaching without words? . Not alarmist.
Family is children's first school, parents are children's first teachers, and they are also role models for children to learn during their growth, so good family education plays a vital role in children's life. When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach my children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and know a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of dealing with people, so that they can develop a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Of course, for children who are only over two years old, vague teaching of abstruse truth can't make him understand the meaning, and children naturally won't accept it, so they need to start from bit by bit in life.
(1) Cultivate children's interest. Interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that it was ok to play and play new tricks, such as making slides. When you show them to other children, you will have a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English now. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested in learning, and says to his mother, There is a classmate in my class who speaks English very well, and I want to be like him? . I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I know my son's Chinese is not very good, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(2) Punish children appropriately, actively guide them, and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When we learned about it, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. Now my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is quite fun.
(3) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
At one time, the family watched more TV, and Han Han watched more TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So now everyone in the family has learned to read, even if they don't read, so Han Han also learned to read. Although it won't take long, habits are cultivated slowly, and it will be better if they are accumulated bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The point is that Han Han likes them very much. I think it is most important to cultivate interest.
(4) Cultivate children's masculinity and don't spoil them.
Han Han's father is often in other places, and Han Han doesn't see his father several times a year, so as a mother, I should be a good father as well as a good mother. Therefore, I have been intentionally or unintentionally trying to cultivate Han Han's masculinity, but I don't spoil him very much. For example, when Han Han fell, I never helped him up. I always encourage him to fall and get up, and then pat the dirty things on his body. If it's broken, even if it hurts, it won't show. Just tell him it's okay. So now Hanhan falls down, as long as it's not serious, he basically doesn't cry, just comforting me and saying, Mom, I'm fine! ? Although it seems that I am cold-blooded, I think I did the right thing, especially for a boy, we must cultivate his strong character and not be cowardly.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. There are many children? Cute shortcomings? It is worth learning from adults. Such as exuberant vitality and good learning attitude; Not conservative, good at accepting new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge and master the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is a single-parent family, and the feelings of respecting teachers and respecting morality are relatively weak, and the academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my children can develop in a more all-round way in morality, intelligence and physical education, and make up for the shortage of our family education. Such a teacher is highly respected by me, my children and society. Gardener? The cultivated flowers will undoubtedly be more colorful.
Parents share family education speeches (3) Dear teachers and students:
Hello, everyone:
School education, social education, family education and self-education play different roles in a person's growth and development. Family education plays a unique role in children's knowledge enlightenment, spiritual growth and life. The importance a family attaches to children's education will determine whether a child can succeed in the future. Our country has a very good family education tradition. In history, some family talents came forth in large numbers, and the reason is inseparable from their well-educated families. Almost every family with a surname has a family motto. The famous family education books in history are: Family Instructions of Yan Family, Family Instructions of Zhu Zi and Family Letters of Zeng Guofan. Most of the contents of these books emphasize children's cultivation, scholarship, life and life.
As a parent, I am well aware of the importance of family education and constantly explore the methods of education. I want to take this opportunity to talk about some of my experiences and communicate with teachers and parents in order to attract more attention.
First, pay attention to a good family environment and cultural atmosphere to lay a good foundation for children's growth.
Children grow up in the family, just like a small tree growing in nature. A good natural environment is conducive to the growth and rapid growth of trees. Similarly, a good family environment and atmosphere will promote the healthy and happy growth of children. Therefore, I attach great importance to the construction of family cultural atmosphere and the construction of learning families.
Although my house is small, it has a strong cultural atmosphere. In my life, books are my friends and learning is my habit. As long as I have time, I will study and study every day, so that my children can be influenced by me. This influence is subtle, and it is a long-term contact and edification. Now my children love reading, which is probably influenced by me. Why are children affected? I think it has something to do with herd mentality. For a phenomenon, children first follow the trend and then form a habit. Especially living with children for a long time, can he be free from your influence? So-called? Near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico. Is it black? . Therefore, as parents, it is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the hope and future of children. This should become a law: responsible parents will certainly cultivate successful children!
Parents should give full play to their potential, and every potential is a rare element in their children's growth. Every parent has the advantage of children's learning, and this advantage is your potential. We should turn these advantages into sunshine, air, water, soil and nutrients for children's growth to moisten and nourish their hearts.
I like China traditional culture, such as seal cutting, calligraphy, Chinese painting and flute playing. I think these hobbies are very beneficial to children's growth. Learn seal cutting and practice calligraphy and painting as soon as you have time. Although I may not let my child do this in the future, I think such a family environment must be beneficial to him. The home is permeated with the taste of scholarly culture. This kind of breath will penetrate into the child's mind and affect his behavior. Sometimes, I will make a painting with my child to let him feel the charm of traditional culture. Moreover, you can also take the opportunity to educate your children. Once, my child asked me to teach him seal cutting, so I gave him a piece of Yin Shi and told him how to do it. The child took the stone and carved it carefully, but he couldn't. Finally, he said a word:? I didn't expect seal cutting to be so difficult? . I said to him:? Nothing is easy to do, but doing it well requires effort, not just enthusiasm. . In this way, in daily life, I entertain the host and let him understand things.
Second, communicate on an equal footing and form a friend-type parent-child relationship.
What do you think of enterprise management? Communication is more important than power? . I think communication in the family is more effective than scolding. The mistake we are prone to make is that once a child makes a mistake, such as doing homework wrong or doing homework too slowly, our parents' emotions will suddenly become impatient, and some parents will even punish their children. In fact, this kind of education method is wrong. Can't you reason with children and communicate on an equal footing? Only when you treat your child as an independent and dignified education object can your child accept your point of view. We are both parents now. If we were scolded or beaten by our parents when we were young, we don't want to remember now. On the contrary, what we want to remember most is how our parents patiently communicated with us on an equal footing. Therefore, when we educate our children, we should not be too simple and rude. The more you try to deal with the problem simply, the more complicated the child's problem will become. And now children around the age of ten are prone to rebellious psychology. Therefore, equal communication is more effective than reprimanding. I remember once I had an in-depth conversation with my child about his homework and taught him to overcome his carelessness. In the future exams, he worked hard and his grades improved. Equal communication can help him find the crux of the problem and help him find a solution to it.
My relationship with my children is very friendly, completely a friend relationship. This harmonious father-son relationship will be beneficial to his growth. We often discuss, play chess, sing, draw pictures and fly kites together. I also wrote an article "In spring, my son and I fly kites together". This article tells the story of me and my children flying kites, telling children that they will encounter setbacks in the process of growing up, learn to face setbacks, walk against the wind like kites and fly high for nine days!
It is with equal communication that I can grow up with my child, feel the process of his spiritual growth and appreciate his spiritual world! In fact, on the one hand, I can't grow up without children. Children are also educating me, because children will urge me to constantly improve myself! At this point, I have to thank my children!
Third, strict requirements, emphasizing that we must study hard and pay more attention to being a man.
The education of children should not only focus on learning, but also on all-round development, especially learning to be a man. In learning, it is mainly to cultivate children's good study habits. For example, in composition writing. I first ask children to learn to observe people or things in life carefully. Catch with your eyes and feel with your heart. Sometimes I will teach children how to observe things, grasp their characteristics and describe them in words. My child's composition has never been written directly in the exercise book. I have to draft it first, and then revise it. He basically did it all by himself. In the process of revision, I explain the writing method from the aspects of conception, conception and language expression. In this way, his writing level has been continuously improved. In addition, I also bought some good books for my children to read, to enhance their literary perception.
We are strict with our children, pay attention to educating them on the little things in daily life and cultivate their good moral quality. Teach him to honor his parents, respect others, learn to be polite and be grateful. The child wrote an essay "Deep Motherly Love". His mother was very moved after reading it. She feels that the child has realized his mother's love for him, which shows that he has a grateful heart.
Family education is a long-term task and a meticulous work. As long as you work hard, you will see the hope of success and the children's tomorrow!
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