I wrote this article because I received a comment that girls should take a bath with their father, which is helpful for sex education to get up early. Many experts and parenting books have mentioned that before the age of 6, daughters and fathers should be allowed to bathe together, so that children can know the truth that "men and women are different"; Because of this, the restrooms in kindergartens are gender-neutral. When children find that men and women go to the toilet in different ways, teachers can immediately point out that because of your gender differences, the way to go to the toilet is different. Daughter 10 month. From birth to now, I have bathed with her father. Actually, I already washed it. Her father was just helping, because he said his hands were too rough and dry to hurt his daughter's tender skin, so he dared not wash them. Especially the daughter's private parts, never touch. At most, I just wipe my daughter's little face gently with one finger. A few days ago, giada's father and I discussed whether our daughter should take a bath with him. As soon as my question fell, he said shyly, I should wash it with you. You are the mother. This is a mother's business. I pointed out that the current "Parenting Law" says that it is beneficial for children's sex education for daughters and fathers to take a bath together. Giada's father thought for a moment and said, there is some truth in this statement, but sex education for children is not carried out exclusively from one thing or several things, but a gradual process, and even needs to be prepared to answer questions at any time. Every family has different educational methods and ideas, so their choices on this issue are different. I asked again: What if my daughter insists on washing with you? He said: If so, you must agree, otherwise it will dampen the daughter's enthusiasm and affect the relationship between father and daughter. Most importantly, if a child's curiosity is not satisfied, her desire will be even stronger. If this is not a good thing, it is even worse. However, when washing, he will tell his daughter: this time, dad promised to take a bath with you. You see, dad is different from you. Dad is a man and you are a woman, so not only dad can't take a shower with you, but other boys can't peek at you. If any child is disobedient and fails to do it, you must tell your parents. Of course, you can't do anything wrong Although dad can't take a bath with you, he is your protector. After listening to my husband's answer, I think it makes sense. This not only satisfies her daughter's curiosity, but also teaches her to protect herself. In fact, the essence of sex education is to hope that children know the difference between men and women, especially girls should learn to protect themselves from bullying. I don't think it is possible for many families to let their father and daughter bathe together. Although I am guarding my children, the feeling of being naked is also uncomfortable. But dad is the best sex education entity, and how to make good use of "physical teaching materials" is really a problem. In fact, children's curiosity is the most serious when they are 2 to 4 years old. When they are older, she may feel ashamed to take off her clothes in front of her father, let alone take a shower with him. You need to promise your daughter's request or consciously arrange the experience of "bathing together", but it is only "occasionally". If this happens often, I still feel a little inappropriate as a mother. In recent years, "children's sex education" is so popular that parents don't know how to educate correctly. In fact, there is no need to copy mechanically. Every family is different and every child is different. As long as you act according to your own ideas, education sometimes only depends on the results, and the best way of education is also suitable for children. It's very important to start with the little things around you, such as teaching children not to urinate anywhere and telling them not to appear in front of people in underwear no matter how hot it is. Although these are trivial matters, the essence of sex education also permeates etiquette education. Among many parenting methods, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the best rule. Having a daughter at home will have many similar entanglements. I wonder how other mothers choose to face such a thing?