A good baby at ordinary times becomes a dislike for her mother once she studies. Children don't like to study, study carelessly, often make mistakes, and don't like to communicate with children. After studying for 5 minutes, they just want to play mobile phones and indulge in games. All kinds of problems bother too many parents.
Have you seriously considered the reason? These are all children's problems, and the essence is the projection of parents' parenting problems.
As parents, we haven't learned to control our emotions, and we don't know how to handle ourselves and get along with our lovers. How to get along with children? What are the methods, abilities and strengths of educating children?
Education never means teaching, shouting, cursing or venting. Education is carried out by action, imperceptibly and imperceptibly.
It is normal for children to do something wrong and arouse their parents' emotions.
Before we learn to control our emotions, if we properly handle the violent emotions that have happened, it is also an opportunity for us to grow up together with our children.
As Fan Deng said, mistakes are opportunities for learning.
We don't have to treat mistakes as a scourge. Since mistakes have happened, we should learn to sum up, be good at reflection and correct them in time.
First, as parents, we don't have to blame ourselves.
Secondly, we should attribute our emotions to ourselves and know ourselves.
Third, take the initiative to take responsibility. Be responsible for the consequences of your emotions, learn to admit your mistakes and apologize to your children.
Thirdly, with children, analyze the causes of mistakes and help children find their own problems and take warning.
Finally, share the wrong attitudes and opinions with your children.
We should make children understand that it is normal to make mistakes, and anyone can make mistakes.
As long as you learn to treat mistakes as opportunities for learning and progress, try to avoid or reduce making the same mistakes in the future.
As parents, we should learn more about ourselves and children's psychology, so as to complete the process of accompanying children and continue to accompany them to grow up!
Teacher Fan Deng talks about Fu Liping's "Five Learning Hats for Children" and teaches you how to unlock it and how to cultivate children into others' children.
Five different colors of hats, white, red, yellow, black and blue, correspond to five different internal driving forces, emotions, habits, resistance and competition of everyone. As long as you learn how to control these five hats, everyone will grow up quickly and become excellent.
Do you want these five hats? Then read "Five Learning Hats for Children" quickly, and better internalize it for your own use as a gift for children's "June 1" Festival.
# Spring Life Punch Season # # Spring Diary # # Reading #