First of all, as the parents of children, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the teachers in Dandelion Class. Thank you for your hard education, so that my children have a better growth. To tell the truth, my children are no better than other children. When it comes to parenting, I don't think there is anything special, and I don't know how to write this article properly, but I can't break my word. Briefly talk about your own experience, hoping to play a role in attracting jade. Parents are children's first teachers, and it is also the common wish of parents all over the world to teach children to be useful people. In the process of children's growth, every parent has his own ideas and practices, which can be said that different people have different opinions. Every child in our time is a darling, and children have grown up in obedience since childhood. Adults really don't want their children to suffer a little injustice. In fact, this phenomenon is not good in the process of children's growth, and everyone will not be smooth sailing in society. First of all, I think the family environment has a great influence on him. Children's understanding of our society is zero. It is through the words and deeds of parents and people around them that children gradually form their own world view. A child is like a blank sheet of paper from birth. How to describe this blank sheet of paper? This is what every parent wants to do. Let children grow up with kindness, love and care for others. Family environment and parents' education always exert a subtle influence on children, which will never be forgotten.
Once parents went to kindergarten to participate in their children's parent-child activities. After the activity, the teacher distributed fruit to each child. The child gave me a bite and I ate it happily. This move is very important, because the child has someone else in his heart, which gives him a sense of sharing and cultivates his filial piety.
In addition, I think we should adopt different methods according to the characteristics of children of different ages. In early childhood, it is mainly to cultivate their understanding of phenomena and simple rational thinking. I never asked my children to be magical powers. After he babbled, before going to kindergarten, I often told my husband that any normal child accepts things quickly. This kind of acceptance is thoughtless, lacking in understanding, or emotional rather than rational. We should not force children's future. It doesn't make much sense. There is nothing better than knowing chopsticks and clothes. When my child went to kindergarten, I didn't ask much of him. I don't care how much culture he has learned. I mainly want him to feel the learning atmosphere, adapt to the learning environment, learn something that he can't learn at home, and cultivate his interest in learning.
Of course, every parent has a different way of educating their children. In short, there are many ways for children to receive education. Family is a hotbed for children to grow up. Parents' words and deeds have a vital influence on their children. Teachers' hard work can help children out of a successful life.
How to write the second part of parents' parenting experience?
I have read a book called "The Revolution of Learning", which contains such a passage: "Seize the most crucial years: from birth to eight years old. In fact, many parents will not care about this stage and let them waste their time at this time. In fact, boys and girls can reach 50% of the intelligence measured at the age of 17 before the age of 4, and then develop 30% between the ages of 4 and 8, and the last 20% will be completed between the ages of 8 and 17. When this critical period is completed, it can lead to the success of future learning. " So how can we educate our children well? I think parents should not only have a good parenting attitude, but also pay attention to parenting methods. Let me talk about my own experience in educating my son: 1. As parents, we should first adjust our mentality and recognize the children's personality characteristics, advantages and disadvantages. In the face of children's education, we should have a stable mood and a healthy mood. Even if you are tired after a day's work, you can't have emotions in front of your children.
2. Cultivate children's interest in reading. Parents can choose some stories, riddles, crossword puzzles and so on. Vivid and interesting, can attract children. Read him stories before going to bed every day, and gradually develop the habit of listening to stories before going to bed. Learning anything is fun, as long as it is a game. Now my children will say to me before going to bed every night, "Mom, I'm going to do my homework."
3. Develop thinking and develop in many ways. Children's interests are varied and constantly changing. According to this characteristic of children, we should develop their intelligence reasonably, broaden their thinking and let them learn as much as possible. At the same time, parents should adapt to this feature in the process of children's development, supplement and absorb all aspects of knowledge in time, and answer children's questions. I think it is very important that parents should take part in children's activities more. Children's job is to play. Children learn from everything they do.
4. Encourage more and reprimand less. Every child needs the careful care and education of his parents when he grows up. We might as well give him more praise when he makes progress and give him more encouragement when he is in trouble. Children's immature heart is self-respecting, and under reprimand, it may hinder children's enterprising heart. With praise and encouragement, the child's heart will fly happily.
5. Cultivate good living habits. Good habits will benefit children for life. Like many mothers, I hope my children have a kind heart, all the excellent qualities of being a man and a bright future. I know: no matter what a child does, he should be serious and focused, and have good control ability, so that he has a great possibility of success in both study and work in the future.
6. Parents are children's first teachers. In daily life, parents should set an example, take a good lead and pay attention to their words and deeds. For example, no littering in public places, no swearing and so on.
7. Let children know what "exchange" is. Nowadays, children are all only children, and adults obey whatever they want, which is not conducive to children's growth. My method is that the child wants me to do something with him, and I will let him do something with me. For example, watching TV, he said he would watch Dora the Explorer, and I would promise him. However, I will limit him to watch a few episodes and what to do after watching them.
8. Communicate with children more, listen carefully and understand their psychological needs. The first thing I do when I go home every day is to ask him, "What skills did the teacher teach you today? Can you perform for us? "
9. The key to getting children involved in family work is communication. For example, when asking children to help with slippers, they should say, "Would you please help me with a pair of slippers?" Never use imperative spoken English.
10, turn every outing into a learning experience. Such as the seesaw in the park, the switch of lights and the switch of doors, the night becomes the day.
Chapter III How to Write Parents' Parenting Experience?
Time flies, and time is gone forever. In casual days, Tingting has changed from a babbling baby to a "little adult" today. As you get older, your sense of independence increases, and you are no longer the baby in your eyes. Sometimes, she will seize some shortcomings of adults and make suggestions, or question the hearts of adults in her mind. In the face of such "adults", we should know that when we educate our children, we often lose our temper inadvertently and call them "you are so stupid" and "worthless" At this time, as parents, our words often hurt children's small hearts, and children's self-esteem will also feel sorry for themselves. With the growth of age, the students in Grade Three have become rebellious, so as parents, we should not let the mistakes repeat themselves, because youth is golden, happy and free, and all we have to do is "guide" and "encourage".
Facing their children, every parent has his own parenting experience. When parents talk about their babies, the problem they often encounter in communication is how to criticize their children for being right and effective, especially from the third grade of primary school. From this, I draw five conclusions:
First, don't criticize in public: because children in the rebellious period have strong self-esteem, when there are many people, give them appropriate praise and praise, and our children will show a happy look and will continue to carry forward.
Second, don't criticize before going to bed: because criticism before going to bed will affect sleep, but this is not enough, because this is when children are sleepy, and they can't listen if they talk too much.
Third, don't criticize when eating: because it will affect the digestive effect of food, it will also make children lose the fun of eating, so it will go in one ear and out the other. So talk to your child more when you eat at school, so that he (she) will be more and more energetic.
Fourth, don't compare any child with other children: because this will increase the child's sense of self-sadness, parents should tell their children that my child is always the best, which will make their confidence stronger and stronger.
Fifth, don't vent your emotions: when criticizing your child, you should use a moderate tone, and don't let yourself leave an image of a fierce mother and bad mother in your child's mind. I learned this from other parents.
Anyway, parents have been busy with their children all their lives, especially in education, which makes them feel sorry for carrying on the family line.