19 19 10, originally published in 19 191month, the sixth issue of New Youth.
The original intention of Mr. Lu Xun to write this article is actually to study how to transform the family; And because China is more patriarchal and patriarchal, I especially want to express my views on the issue of father and son, which has never been considered sacred. To sum up: it's just that the revolution should be on Laozi.
Love is the source of education, and there is no education without love. True love is to let your children and students develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically in an all-round way, give full play to their potential, have a sound personality and cheerful personality, and thus have a happy life.
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The story of Lu Xun's education of children
1, respect children
Once, Xiao Hong went to Mr. Lu Xun's home for dinner, and Xu Guangping asked a Fujian restaurant on the street for a bowl of fish balls. When eating, Yinghai first put a few balls into the bowl, and after eating one, he said, "It's not fresh, it's not delicious." Xu Guangping picked up one and ate it, feeling very fresh. So he criticized Yinghai and gave him another one. After eating this, facing the sea is still not fresh. Xu Guangping was very angry and scolded Yinghai more severely.
Seeing this situation, Mr. Lu Xun picked up the fish balls on the plate facing the sea and tasted them. It's really not fresh. It turns out that some of the fish balls in this bowl are fresh and some are not. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "He said that it is not fresh, and there must be his reason. It is wrong to criticize without looking. "
Step 2 be careful and thoughtful
Once at dinner, Yinghai heard that her parents had reserved tickets for the circus, with performances by lions, tigers and elephants. Ying Hai was in high spirits and refused to go upstairs to sleep that night, waiting for her parents to take her to the circus. However, it was not until late at night that I saw my parents calling me.
Later, I learned that, considering that most of these programs were beast performances, and they were all performed before going to bed in the middle of the night, my father was afraid that Xiao Haiying would be frightened, so he and Xu Guangping secretly left through the back door, leaving Yinghai at home to be taken care of by the nanny. When Yinghai knew it, she burst into tears until she fell asleep.
The next day, after learning about this, Mr. Lu Xun patiently explained to Yinghai why he was not allowed to go to the circus, and promised to take him to the circus again during the day. 1On the afternoon of October 20th, Lu Xun and Xu Guangping took Yinghai to see the circus. Although there are only equestrian and clown performances, I am very happy to meet the sea.
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