20 17 after my divorce, I lived in my ex-wife's house for 3 years, with my children, in a community in Shenzhen. There are many stay-at-home mothers in the community, and we often gossip together and exchange parenting experiences.
Because I am handsome, talkative and humorous, I quickly became the spiritual leader of Ma Bao. If you don't go downstairs for a day, you will be full of romance and send a group to my house.
Of course it's not good, is it? As soon as my ex-wife came home, her nose and mouth kept moving. The market is good and sells well.
I closed the door and organized a book club. Get together once a week, cafe, AA. The first book is highly recommended by my daughter, and it is also a must-read book in their school, The Little Prince.
Originally, I planned to publish a Harle, but I read it for more than a year, and I haven't finished reading it until the book club was dissolved. I can't finish reading it. I feel that I can't finish reading all my life, and I feel different every time.
Everyone has a different understanding of the same point. A thousand people have a thousand little princes. This is a magic book.
That stepmother is the hardest, and she almost knows it by heart. Heaven rewards hard work, and finally exerts magic, and the stepmother becomes a mother.
Xiao Chang, the son of her husband and ex-wife, 10 years old, is a piece of ice that refuses to melt. Don't let her near, don't talk to her, never look at her, and implement the three noes policy.
In the face of his father's threats and inducements, Xiao Chang can't bend his position and wealth. Poverty is strong, not falling into the sky. It seems that we should fight to the end, be strong in old age, not use our brains?
Stepmother is so desperate that she can't breathe. It was the little prince who saved her. More precisely, it was the little fox in The Little Prince who saved her.
The little prince wants to be friends with the little fox, and the little fox wants the little prince to tame it first.
Taming is making connections. It is easy to understand. Humans are not used to knowing everything, but to buying things from businessmen. There is no shop to buy friends, so people have no friends.
How should we tame it?
"You should be very patient." The fox replied, "at first, you just sat in the grass and sat a little far away from me." I looked at you out of the corner of my eye and you didn't say anything. Speech is the root of misunderstanding. But every day, you sit closer to me ... "
Then have a sense of ceremony.
The sense of ritual is to make one day different from other days and one moment different from other moments.
The little fox said to the little prince, you'd better come to see me at the same time every day. For example, at 4 pm, I will feel happy from 3 pm. The closer time is, the happier it is. When you arrive, you will tremble with happiness. If you come anytime, I don't know when my mood will be ready.
If you don't tame me, I will be like a million foxes. Tame, I am unique. You are responsible for everything you tame.
The little prince left the asteroid where he lived and came to the earth because he was dissatisfied with a rose. What did Fox say about going back to find roses, because he spent time on roses.
"Goodbye." Said the fox. "Well, this is my secret. It's simple: you can only see clearly with your heart. Substantial things are invisible to the eyes. "
The little prince remembered the fox's words, gave them to the poisonous snake to bite him to death, left his heavy body on the ground, and his soul went to heaven to find his rose.
Stepmother did as Fox said. First of all, she sat far away, near, near and said nothing. As long as there is always any disgusting micro-expression, the stepmother will silently retreat to a safe distance.
The school is not too far, it takes more than ten minutes to walk. Xiaochang didn't take the school bus.
My stepmother picks Xiao Chang up every day. Even if Xiao Chang ignores her, she goes and is on time. Every afternoon at 4: 08, I appear under the same banyan tree on time, just opposite the classroom door of the small factory.
Standing in the same posture every time, T-step, hands crossed in front of the lower abdomen. The position is not bad at all. She drew a circle on the tree with a knife, and the circle was facing her elbow.
In order to be punctual, my stepmother always leaves 15 minutes early, first stands in the dead corner of the field of vision, and then appears on time at 4: 08, every minute is not bad.
It didn't help to persist for a semester. We all suspected that Fox was lying, but the stepmother insisted.
Suddenly there was a thunderstorm and the school was delayed for half an hour. Stepmother's umbrella was scratched, but she has been standing under the banyan tree, like a statue, soaked to the skin.
This time, Xiao Chang and his stepmother came back with umbrellas. Stepmother bit her lip and cried all the way.
At the sharing meeting, the stepmother recited Chapter 21, which is the chapter about Little Fox. The stepmother burst into tears and couldn't control herself. We all cried. Stepmother said that she would pay the bill, so we all acquiesced and were happy for her.
Since then, the safe distance has gradually disappeared.
But the stepmother still doesn't interfere in everything in the small factory. Xiao Chang likes playing games and sometimes doesn't do his homework. The stepmother had a heart-to-heart talk with the teacher and said to give her time. More direct to my husband. How's your academic performance? I have a bad relationship with her. Is this home still valuable and necessary?
Xiao Chang always stays up late. When the alarm clock rang, he threw it out and went back to sleep. As soon as his father called him, he threw his leg on the mattress and whined.
Stepmother thought of a way. Set the alarm clock to the birdsong in the valley, from far to near, from weak to strong. Then help Xiao Chang squeeze the toothpaste and put it flat on the mouthwash cup.
In order to prevent the toothpaste from turning over, two small grooves are carved on the toothbrush handle. This is not repaired once, but it has been considered in advance and has never been turned over once.
Then gently open the curtains, gently exit the room and go to the kitchen to get breakfast. Never scream again and don't allow your husband to scream. If you are late, you will be late and explain to the teacher.
In this way, more than a year has passed. During the Spring Festival, Xiao Chang suddenly raised his glass and wished his mother a happy New Year.
Stepmother suddenly got up, ran to the bedroom, locked the door and cried for two and a half hours. The quilt is soaked to the skin, so it can be wrung out.
The stepmother couldn't do that sharing meeting at all. I can't stop crying. Now I have finished reading Chapter 2 1. I've seen my eyes wet once, and I've seen them more than a dozen times.
After drinking coffee, I announced that the reading club was dissolved and the mountain fell.
Feng Tang is easy to get old, but Li Guang is hard to seal. Qu Jiayi is in Changsha, not without a master; Is there no time to escape from Hongliang to Haiqu?
All problems, in the final analysis, are their own problems, and they are all careless and have not spent time.
Great France.
Rousseau's Emile is the foundation work of modern educational thought, and his naturalistic educational thought shocked the whole European continent, which coincides with the theme of Laozi's Tao Te Ching: Taoism is natural.
Man's law is based on the earth, the earth is based on the sky, the sky is based on the Tao, and the Tao is natural.
Laozi is the best in the world.
Rousseau said that the most useless education is reasoning, losing your temper and deliberately moving, because it goes against the way of nature.
Let's think about it. Didn't reasoning go in one ear and out the other when I was a child? Which truth is not made by yourself? I didn't believe it until I experienced it. If I had listened to my parents and teachers earlier, why would this happen? At least it would be more promising.
Lose your temper if you don't listen. This is in line with your own nature. You are too lazy to spend time and can't control your emotions. Not yet, just "bribing" a birthday or something, or complaining about being poor and being kidnapped morally. Do you think children are fools?
The Great Little Prince begins with a great sentence: "Every adult was once a child, but few adults remember this."
When educating children, try to think about yourself as a child.
Anthony de Saint-Exupery specifically answered the education questions raised by the sages through the little fox in The Little Prince.
Of course, this is just the tip of the iceberg in The Little Prince. If its ideological value and artistic value are unattainable, it will not be developed, and 1 10,000 words will not be finished.
For example, a drunk is drunk to forget what he looks like when he is drunk. Even the most amazing words I have ever seen come from the little prince:
"But as soon as I heard my footsteps, the snake climbed into the sand like a dry water column."
The Dry Water Column is really great. God must have grasped the author's handwriting.
I have read almost all the classics of humanities and social sciences. Today is World Reading Day on April 23rd, and I want to recommend a book that is the first in my heart.
The shortlist includes Tao Te Ching, Complete Works of Lu Xun, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Social Contract, The Wealth of Nations, Interpretation of Dreams, Criticism of Pure Reason and The Little Prince.
Finally, I first determined the little prince according to my inner feelings and the degree of shock when reading, and then considered simplicity, practicality and diversity.
The Little Prince has distributed 400 million copies worldwide, and its sales volume is second only to that of the Bible.
French "Saint-Exupery Foundation" officially certified version, Shawn Shaw recommended version. Every word is a diamond. Diamonds last forever, and one lasts forever.
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