First, whether a school is formal or not depends on its reputation, on-the-spot investigation of its school spirit, campus culture and students' mental outlook. Parents talk to students, see how students feel here and understand the changes of students here. That's all that matters.

If it's just the school's unilateral statement, it must be the old lady selling melons to blow her own horn. No comparison, no field trip, not only does not help children, but also makes children blame their parents more and waste precious youth.

The second is the cultural management of the school. What can students get here? What can students change here? How have the students here changed? Three issues are what parents are most concerned about. Thanksgiving education, cultivate children to be filial to their parents. Militarization training, exercise children's health and change lazy habits. The classic education of Chinese studies allows children to know the life of ancient sages and remind themselves at all times. Psychological counseling can relieve children's emotions and eliminate psychological misunderstandings. Team activities, weekly group activities, exercise children's team spirit and friendship.

When parents choose a school for their children, they must visit the school on the spot to see if it is a regular school.

In addition to choosing a regular school, children are rebellious. Parents should not always stare at their children's weaknesses and compare their own shortcomings with the strengths of other children. In the contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children and encourage them to reduce their resistance to their parents.