1. Communicate with the school teacher in time: First of all, parents should communicate with the school teacher in time to understand the details of the incident. If the child is physically injured, it is necessary to ask the teacher whether there is a medical need and the school's views and plans on this matter. At the same time, parents should also ask their children whether they need help or support after they are emotionally stable.

2. Understand the school's rules and regulations and related laws and regulations: Parents should understand the school's rules and regulations and related laws and regulations, and clarify the school's views and handling methods for such incidents. If the school handles this matter improperly or unfairly, parents can report it to the superior leaders or relevant departments and ask the school to handle this matter.

3. Educate children to handle conflicts correctly: Parents should educate their children to handle conflicts correctly, such as avoiding using violence to solve problems, learning to respect others, learning to express their thoughts and feelings, and seeking help and support. At the same time, parents should also tell their children that if they are treated unfairly or bullied, they should tell their parents and teachers in time.

4. Communicate with other parents and jointly respond: If similar incidents happen to other children, parents can communicate with other parents and jointly respond. You can raise issues of common concern to the school and ask the school to take measures to strengthen campus safety management to avoid similar incidents from happening again. At the same time, you can also complain to the relevant departments and demand punishment for those involved.

Measures to avoid school conflicts:

1. Establish good communication skills: students should learn how to communicate effectively with others to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. This includes listening to others' opinions, expressing your own thoughts and feelings, and using respectful and polite language. Students can take communication skills courses or learn conflict resolution skills to help them stay calm and rational in difficult situations.

2. Cultivate positive attitudes and behaviors: Students should learn to show friendship and respect to others and avoid using insulting or offensive language. At the same time, students should also learn to control their emotions and avoid getting furious over trifles. Positive attitudes and behaviors can help students build good interpersonal relationships and reduce conflicts.

3. Encourage students to participate in social activities: Schools can organize various social activities, such as sports competitions, cultural performances and volunteer activities, to help students build social skills and team spirit. These activities can help students get to know each other better, enhance their cooperation ability and cohesion, and thus reduce conflicts.

4. Provide appropriate support and resources: Schools can provide psychological counseling and support services to help students deal with emotional problems and stress. These services can help students learn how to deal with difficult situations and reduce the stress of tension and conflict. In addition, the school can also provide courses and resources to help students understand how to deal with conflicts and solve problems.