1. How should parents educate their children correctly?
First, make friends with children. If you don't take drastic actions and educate your children correctly, you should put down your posture and take the initiative to make friends with your children instead of being arrogant all the time. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for them.
In addition, when children make mistakes, parents should first calm their children's emotions, avoid taking excessive actions against them, help them calmly analyze and solve problems, and don't indiscriminately stick education.
Rough treatment of children can not only make him realize his mistakes and correct them, but also leave a shadow in his heart and his personality becomes extreme.
Second, spend more time with your children.
No one can replace the love and companionship of parents. Only with the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children get better education and form good habits.
However, in real life, many parents have to ask their grandparents to come over to help look after their children, or just leave their children at home.
In this case, parents can't give their children enough company, which will have a bad influence on his growth.
Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more, or make more videos and phone calls to keep abreast of their children's life and study, so that children can feel that they still care and love themselves even if their parents are not around.
Third, parents should set an example.
Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will have a subtle influence on their children, so parents must set a good example for their children.
There are many scholarly families, parents with high quality and good virtue, and their children are naturally educated.
On the contrary, it is difficult for children to develop good behavior habits when they grow up in a smoky family environment.
Fourth, learn to respect children.
Although children's growth depends on their parents, they are also independent individuals and need the respect of others, such as:
Respect children's interests-interest is the internal motivation to constantly stimulate children's creativity. When children show interest in a certain aspect, parents should not stifle it, but encourage them and help them learn a new skill.
Respect the child's personality-when the child makes a mistake, parents should not scold him too much, but help him realize the mistake, guide him to correct it and avoid making it again;
Respect children's opinions-when important decisions need to be made in the family, don't forget to ask children's opinions, especially those that affect them. In this way, children can feel respected and grow more confident and excellent in the future.
Children are like a blank sheet of paper, and they can only grow up with the careful education and training of their parents. Parents learning the above four points can not only make their children develop physically and mentally healthily, but also establish close parent-child relationship and grow up in a warm and harmonious family atmosphere.
2. How should parents educate their children correctly?
1, parents must know that Lin pays great attention to listening and communicating with children. When we communicate with our children, we must listen to him carefully and let him feel the attention and respect of his parents. Only in this way can children's self-esteem be established, and they can seriously think about their own ideas, what they should do and say in the process of talking with adults. What should I say? This child will also help to cultivate some of his rational thinking habits. Of course, when adults communicate with children, they must also pay attention to some details that should be paid attention to in order to communicate with children better. Let children form good habits, and let them do what they should do according to their characteristics and age.
2. Grasp the boundaries between learning period and games.
In fact, children can be called preschool children before they go to primary school. Preschool children mainly let them play. Even though we have enrolled many cram schools for our children at this time, the most important thing is to let them play in the classroom. Therefore, it is unrealistic and useless for children to learn a lot by enrolling in cram schools. Children's interests will gradually change. There is no way to attract them in preschool games. They will gradually become interested in something while playing. At that time, our children will study hard slowly, so we should distinguish children of different ages and do different things at different times.
3. Education should set an example, supplemented by words and deeds.
For many families, children are under the education and influence of their parents, which has a great influence on their future development. Therefore, our parents should constantly improve their own quality, and parents should set a more correct example for their children. In daily life, we should always pay attention to our words and deeds, because children like to imitate their parents best. Parents should set a more correct example for their children under any circumstances. Although there will be some changes in different changes and developments, the essence of humanistic education has not changed.
3. How should parents educate their children correctly
1. Setting an example is to influence and educate children with some good thoughts and behaviors of others. This is the more important way. Excellent students, or heroic models of teachers and neighbors, or positive figures in literary and artistic works, revolutionary leaders, etc. These are the objects that children imitate and learn. Mom and dad's words and deeds, whether right or wrong, also have an impact on children, so our parents should pay attention to their words and deeds in daily life. An orderly life is the most effective way to cultivate children's good habits. We can guide children to arrange their own lives, their own living environment, teach children how to arrange their own time, use this time to study, and make his life orderly. Parents can also give him some advice when the child makes his own arrangements. If parents don't set an example at this time, or don't do enough education for their children, then they will let their children do the opposite, lacking some time restrictions and failing to achieve the desired effect. Therefore, as parents, we should abide by everything we do for our children. If you say and do, the children will listen to us.
2. Recognition and reward
Reward and praise is to praise and affirm some behaviors or ideas of children. Through these praises and affirmations, a child's sense of honor and enterprise can be enhanced, and he can make faster progress. When we reward children, we should be realistic and timely, and explain the reasons, give some spiritual rewards, and also let material rewards as an aid, so that children can feel this happiness more. When we insult and make noise to children, children will also form a sense of self-confrontation. Unconsciously protect ourselves with thorns, which will further affect our parent-child relationship. Therefore, we must give more rewards to our children. When we encounter problems, we must learn to reflect with our children, and be patient with our temper to find these reasons and solve problems, which will also make children form better habits.
3. Criticism and punishment
4. How should parents educate their children correctly?
1. Educating children to "learn to be a man" is the main and fundamental task of family education and the core issue of implementing the concept and requirements of quality education. Educating children to be human is to attach great importance to children's ideological and moral education. As parents, we can't value intellectual education over moral education. Because what is more important than knowledge is ability, and what is more important than ability is morality. Family education focuses on educating children to be human beings, mainly to improve their ideological and moral level, cultivate their habits of observing social morality, and enhance their legal awareness and sense of social responsibility.
Second, educate children to "learn to seek knowledge"
There are many ways to learn knowledge, but the important one is to cultivate children's good study habits. Don't force children to "memorize" knowledge, but focus on understanding and learning to use knowledge flexibly.
Third, educate children to "learn to work"
It is necessary to guide children to participate in housework as much as possible, support children to participate in social welfare work, and cultivate their self-care ability and work habits. Children who study and work from an early age will benefit for life. Diligence is the foundation of all virtues, and laziness is the root of all evils. Therefore, it is a compulsory basic course for family education to arrange children to participate in labor from an early age.
Fourth, educate children to "learn to stand on their own feet"
In the process of children's growth, there will be many bumps. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independent ability, the ability to face setbacks bravely and the ability to improvise, let them learn to hone their wings, spread their wings and fly, and educate their children to "develop in an all-round way."