What if girls are too rebellious?
1. After the children enter the rebellious period, their self-awareness becomes stronger and they have their own ideas. I hope they can make their own decisions. If parents don't restrain their children, they will become arrogant and more rebellious and disobedient when they grow up. It will be more difficult for parents to discipline their children then.
Rebellious children are always self-centered and don't consider other people's feelings. If parents leave their children alone, they will become more self-centered. When they grow up, they will only pay attention to their feelings and do anything as long as they are happy. Such children are selfish, can't make good friends, and may also do something to hurt others.
3. The child is rebellious. In fact, children always want to be recognized by adults from the bottom of their hearts, and parents also want to have prestige in their children's hearts. In fact, everyone wants to love each other; It's just that many times we can't express our ideas correctly, but do what everyone can recognize to truly and effectively achieve the satisfaction of both sides.
The girl is in a rebellious period, that is to say, she has her own ideas, but her parents don't cooperate with her and always ignore what their ideas ask them to do. This requires parents to communicate with their children more, and children should be encouraged if they are right. If children's ideas are wrong, we should try to make it clear to them to prevent them from going astray and hinder their future development.
Reasons for girls' adolescent rebellion;
1, influenced by the psychological characteristics of adolescence
After girls enter adolescence, a strong sense of adulthood and independence becomes their important psychological tendency. They want to be respected as adults, and they long for independence. The education of parents and teachers is prone to rebellious psychology.
2. Influenced by family rearing patterns.
Incorrect or inappropriate educational methods used by parents when children are young. When these children grow up, they will have antipathy and resistance to their parents' educational methods. In addition, parental discord is also an important reason for children's rebellious psychology.
3. Lack of communication between parents and children.
There are ideological contradictions. As children grow up, their sense of independence becomes stronger and stronger. They need to have their own way of doing things, and they don't want to be controlled too much. Some parents do everything for their children's protection, so that children's desire for independence and parents' improper kindness and care will lead to ideological conflicts and contradictions. Maybe some parents seldom talk to their children because of their busy work, and just make some strict rules to restrain their children's behavior. Therefore, children who lack communication with their parents are prone to rebellious psychology and behavior.