Some parents find that some families have good education, but they still teach scum. Why? It may be because parents are too strict with their children at ordinary times, so children will become more hateful than ordinary children when they break out, and may also commit illegal acts.

First, why is this happening? For example, if parents always criticize a student, it will cause the child to become very speechless. Moreover, even if the child performs well, parents will not praise it, which will also lead to a very bad parent-child relationship. Therefore, Bian Xiao also hopes that everyone can pay attention to this situation. We should encourage children appropriately, and we also need to give them some space of their own. In this way, we can also avoid such a situation. You know, when children live in a family with very low pressure, they will become very sensitive and antisocial.

Second, what kind of personality is it easy for children to develop? If children often grow up in such a family environment, then children will also develop an anti-social character and may do illegal things when they grow up. Therefore, parents should also pay attention to this, and Bian Xiao also suggested that everyone had better control their behavior. When educating children at ordinary times, we should also educate them in the right way. Don't always insult them or belittle them, otherwise the relationship between them will become very bad.

Third, summarize. As parents, we need to know that we are not saying that all obedient children are the best. We don't know how black some obedient children are. And if you chat with your children at ordinary times, you can also let them express their inner thoughts and make their relationship more harmonious.