Influenced by thousands of years of traditional ideas and bound by feudal ethics, China people always think that children are not sensible, inexperienced and immature, and they are born by themselves, thus forming the conclusion that "adults talk and children listen". Many parents do not allow their children to argue with adults. They follow the guidance method of "parents' orders". Children can only "listen to adults" and are never allowed to quarrel or argue with their parents, otherwise it is "great rebellion" "However, children arguing with their parents is beneficial to their growth. Children who can really argue with their parents will be more confident, gregarious and creative in the future.

Advocating responsible business family education: Debate is a process of arguing and arguing, and it is a process of arguing and arguing with each other. Doing so is conducive to ideological communication, forming consensus and solving problems through argumentation. First of all, arguing is a way for children to get rid of their disorientation and let them know where their abilities and boundaries are. At the same time, arguing can help children become confident and independent. Secondly, argument is the training to deal with conflicts, and children learn the art of argument through argument. Finally, quarreling can stimulate the development of intelligence, and the direct cause of quarreling between children and parents is the improvement of children's language ability and the awakening of participation consciousness.