We often see the news that children are sexually assaulted, but there are still many things we dare not say. The survey shows that the probability of male students being sexually assaulted is higher than that of female students, and it is found that many Weibo V's are pedophiles. It is shocking to think of these dark facts and our children. In fact, family is very important for children's sexual enlightenment and education, and even affects children's happiness throughout their lives. If parents give them sex education in advance and know how to protect themselves, many such things may be avoided.
How to educate children about sex? First of all, we should start from home. Our parents must first have a correct concept of sex. If we all think that sex is a shameful thing, how can we tell our children? Many parents find it difficult to tell their children all parts of their bodies, let alone where they come from. How long have we been cheated by the phrase "you picked it up from the trash can" and how long have we been afraid? Should we continue to cheat our children like this? Although we don't have sex education, we can start learning again and share it with our children.
We need to understand the characteristics of sexual development of children of all ages, and then observe and guide children. For example, a child has been touching his genitals or masturbating since he was 3 years old. We know this is normal, but it doesn't mean that children are precocious. He is just exploring his own body parts and curious about his own body. Then we can tell him the body parts through the picture book, and tell him that others can't touch the private parts, only we can. If touching his genitals will make him feel comfortable and happy, you can do so, but the action should be light and not harmful to your health. At the same time, this behavior can only be carried out in his bedroom, not in public. We just need to support and guide them when they need it, not judge them.