Education is to cultivate children's self-growth, self-evolution and self-drive. Especially in family education, the essence of educating children is to make them feel powerful, not their parents. At this time, "soft wisdom" is needed. Just like Huo Siyan and her son, she won't think her son is a child and help him with everything. On the contrary, she will try her best to let her son do everything, which is why she now has a sensible and warm-hearted son. Happiness is not how to give him happiness, but being able to be happy all the time.
In short, learning is to make children's lives more stretched and cultivate children's strong mind, sound personality, perfect mind and rich feelings.