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Bridget said that children are not tools to make up for regrets. How to educate children correctly?
Introduction: Bridget said that children are not a tool to make up for regrets. When educating children, don't always impose your wishes on them, but let them do what they like and realize their dreams, instead of being forced to realize their parents' dreams. Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and set a good example for their children if they want to educate them correctly.

First, let children do what they like and let them realize their dreams and wishes.

Parents are the children's first 1 teacher and the people who spend the longest time with their children. Some parents always impose their wishes on their children, because they feel that what they didn't finish at that time can definitely be completed by their children. But you should know that children are independent individuals and have their own ideas and thoughts. Don't always regard children as a tool for parents to make up for their regrets. Let children have their own ideas and thoughts.

Second, parents' original intention is good, but the method is wrong.

In fact, parents' original intention is good, and they all hope that their children will have a better life in the future. They hope that their children will have some luxury cars and mansions in the future. It is human nature that parents want their children to have a successful career, but excessive pursuit of this result will lead to children's rebellious psychology, some psychological problems, unnecessary contradictions and troubles, and even children may go astray. Therefore, it is not recommended that you do such a thing.

Third, summary.

If we want our children to grow up healthily, we should first pay attention to our words and deeds and set a good example for them. If we want our children to be excellent, then parents must be excellent, so that we can better convince them. In addition, we must be more understanding, more tolerant and learn to communicate with them correctly.