Simpson, a psychologist at the University of Minnesota in the United States, and his colleagues did a famous study. They followed 78 people for more than 20 years. The results show that according to the emotional behavior of a baby of 12 months, what kind of person he will become after 2 1 can be predicted to a great extent. If a person shows too much anxiety, shyness, timidity and self-confidence when he is 1 year old, he will show poor emotional management ability when he is 16 year old, and may not be good at communication in later life. When he is 2 1 to 30 years old, he will have more negative emotions than others in the process of marriage, which will break up his marriage. Those babies who are better at controlling themselves and have stronger adaptability will be healthier and richer in adulthood.

Everyone's emotional intelligence is not born perfect and mature. Emotional quotient (EQ) can be perfected through intentional cultivation and training, and it is gradually developed and improved in the acquired environment and education, that is, high EQ can be cultivated.

Therefore, the early cultivation of EQ is of great significance. Daniel Gorman emphasized that people's emotional intelligence (EQ) began to form very early. Babies began to feel and learn from the age of 0, and then gradually formed throughout childhood, which established our existing concept. 0-5 years old is the fastest developing period of children's brain, especially in the study of emotional ability.