? How to educate a one-and-a-half-year-old baby who is disobedient?
1. Don't blame and beat and scold.
When many parents face the waywardness and disobedience of their one-and-a-half-year-old babies, their subconscious reaction is severe punishment, blame and abuse, which hurts the baby's self-esteem. And this is the baby's natural physiological performance. Will leave a shadow in the baby's heart, making the baby rebellious, sensitive, withdrawn and introverted.
2. Give understanding and respect
When your baby starts to be disobedient, this is the first step to build his self-esteem and self-esteem. At this time, parents should not easily interfere with his actions. When the baby initially wants to do something by himself, he may wish to meet some reasonable requirements and give guidance when he needs help.
3. Patient communication
One-and-a-half-year-old babies have their own judgments and subjective consciousness and will resist. It is also a crucial period for distinguishing right from wrong. Parents should communicate patiently with their babies and teach them what is right and wrong seriously but not severely. Is wrong. Don't stimulate the baby's emotions, pay attention to comfort and education, and let the baby understand his own right and wrong, neither blaming nor praising blindly.
4. Help children build a sense of security
One-and-a-half-year-old children are not afraid of life, but they are building a sense of security. When the child's second sense of security is established, he can leave his mother to establish a relationship with others, but before establishing a sense of security, the child needs to constantly experience this fear of life, just as the child needs to realize that only the fear of life can overcome the inner fear of life. So don't be afraid of children's fear of life. The correct way is to help children solve their fear of strangers.
5. Clear rewards and punishments
In the face of a one-and-a-half-year-old disobedient baby, parents can adopt clear reward and punishment methods to deepen the baby's subjective consciousness and the establishment of three views. When the baby does something worthy of praise, parents must not be stingy with praise and reward, which can not only satisfy the baby's desire for expression, but also establish correct values; On the contrary, if the baby does something wrong, parents can specify the relevant punishment. This system can help the baby deepen the wrong impression and avoid repeating the same mistakes.
Satisfy the baby's curiosity
One-and-a-half-year-old babies are disobedient out of curiosity. Curiosity can cause the baby's obsession and rebellion. The more you don't want me to do it, the more curious I am; So sometimes parents don't go against the baby's nature. You can let nature take its course On the premise of ensuring safety and cultivating politeness, let go of your hands, let your baby explore by himself, and satisfy your baby's curious nature. Your baby will choose to listen to you.