If parents and the elderly have some differences in the concept of educating their children, parents can't directly refute the elderly. First of all, old people are their elders. As a junior, even if you have ideas about your elders, you should respect them and communicate well. Secondly, it is human nature for the elderly to love their grandchildren. There is nothing wrong with old people. As parents of children, we should understand the love that the old people pour into their children. Only when the elderly fail to grasp the scale of love and turn love into doting will they hurt children. Therefore, parents can't stop the elderly from taking care of their children, let alone reprimand their behavior. Especially in front of children, parents can't argue with the elderly. Doing so will make children see that there are contradictions between adults, and they can take the opportunity to exploit loopholes and increase the difficulty of educating children.

Communicate patiently with the elderly If parents and the elderly have different opinions on educating their children, don't contradict the elderly face to face, but find another opportunity to communicate patiently with the elderly and try to convince them. First of all, parents should affirm and thank the old people for their contribution to their children, because the old people who love their children usually pour a lot of manpower and material resources into their children. Parents can warm the hearts of the old people by expressing their gratitude, and the two sides can communicate better. Secondly, parents should tell the elderly what harm the current practice will bring to their children's growth, because all the elderly want their children to have a bright future. If parents tell their parents about the influence of doting on their children's future parents, the elderly will take the initiative to change their practices; Thirdly, parents should give some reasonable suggestions to the elderly, which can not only let them express their love for their children, but also avoid doting and make them feel more comfortable. Of course, parents can't expect a communication to completely change the elderly. Every time I encounter something specific in my life, my parents can communicate with the elderly, and the elderly will gradually make changes.

Touch the old man's heart with true feelings

Let the old people understand the correct educational concept with reason! Thank the old people for their dedication to their children, admit that everything they do is for us and for their children, and let them feel sincere gratitude from their children. In order to make our children more perfect and keep up with the progress of society, our educational concept will also change. Today's children will learn one or several specialties from an early age. Some old people think that this is not a mistake, but also delays the children's study in vain, which is particularly unnecessary! Children with special skills will be more confident, especially boys' achievements since childhood, their sufferings when they were young, and their precious wealth when they grow up! It can be said to the elderly that children used to be very painful. Now, children, several adults look at one, and clothes are stretched out to eat. What is the pain? Don't learn a specialty, just find something to eat. When you grow up, you can bear hardships and stand hard work. We can't help him for life! Old people can accept this concept!