1. "Stick education" is not desirable. Although stick education does have a certain effect, everything has two sides. There is a saying that "too much is too late". Sometimes stick education has left an indelible influence on children. "Can play" is the premise. If you are an immature child, on the premise of being reasonable, if you can't, plus moderate "beating", you can make your child alert, but you must be temperate. With the growth of children's age and mind, "beating" is definitely not a good way. However, teachers should never use "beating" to punish students.

2. Children will inevitably make mistakes when they grow up. Parents rashly educate their children by beating and cursing, and it is easy for them to succumb to physical pain and change their own problems. This violent way seems to work well. In fact, children are easily afraid of making mistakes, which makes him timid in the future. Parents teach their children with sticks, and children can imitate them easily. When children encounter conflicts and contradictions, they cannot control their emotions in time, but impulsively attack others regardless of the consequences. Under the education of sticks, children hardly feel the warmth of their families, even resent their parents and want to escape from life as soon as possible. And in the future, no matter what happens, children will not communicate with their parents, especially when they fail or suffer.

Parents can also learn from their children in family education. Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, parents can't teach their children a lot as in the past. Nowadays, children have more opportunities to contact new things, and their ability to accept new things is often stronger than that of adults. Therefore, it is common for children to be better than their parents in some ways. Faced with such changes, parents may wish to "learn" from their children as a new way of communication. Parents should put down the so-called shelf when communicating with their children. This can not only avoid the generation gap with children, but also shorten the communication distance with children.

Family education needs to create opportunities for children to communicate with each other. Lack of experience in communicating with others is one of the problems in children's growth. When parents should face this problem, they should help their children and create conditions for them to communicate with others. One can't be divorced from society. Learn how to communicate with people and cultivate them from an early age. Parents must not ignore this problem in education. Under the possible scope and conditions, help children learn to associate with others, and let children know how to distinguish good from evil when interacting with others. You can't stop your child's normal communication because you are afraid that the child will get worse and get hurt.