First, how to make husband and wife's sexual life more harmonious
Due to the lack of relevant knowledge, many women don't know how to face their husbands in sexual life, so they often leave a lot of regrets and even affect their relationship. Women might as well try the following methods to see which ones are more helpful to your husband and wife's feelings and feelings.
1. Don't stand still.
If you have sex in the same way every night, even if you reach orgasm every time, you will eventually become boring because you have no expectations. Take a woman's personal experience as an example: as long as she is on it and rubs her hips around the male genitals, she can reach orgasm. So every time I have sex, I'm in this position. I quickly reached the climax and ended in a hurry. The result is far from satisfactory. In fact, it's still an old saying: the slower you get to your mouth, the better it tastes. In other words, the slower you reach the climax, the stronger the pleasure. When taking the most exciting posture, once it is enough to arouse excitement, don't wait for the climax and switch to other postures. Doing so can not only delay the arrival of orgasm, but also take the opportunity to explore the fun of other postures.
2. Know each other's bodies.
You know, each of us is different, and we are the same in gender. If women have had sexual experience with other men before, sometimes they will apply the previous methods to their current partners, which is inappropriate. So, how do you know what the other person likes? It depends on careful observation. Of course, some people will automatically express their preferences by moaning or shouting, but many people may belong to the type that silence is golden. At this time, you can listen to whether his breathing is accelerating or wheezing, whether his pupils are suddenly enlarged, whether his chin is slack, and most obviously whether his penis is harder. So it doesn't take long to observe, and it can perfectly fit his preferences.
3. Love your body
Nine out of ten modern women consider themselves overweight. When streaking, this self-deprecating view sometimes makes two people not enjoy the fun they deserve. For example, a person who thinks his chest is too small may feel inferior when his partner touches his chest, and then subconsciously avoid his hand or guide him to pay attention to other places. Over time, such signals will disturb your partner, thus affecting your sexual relationship. When women train themselves, they think like this: although their breasts are not big, men are happy to sleep with her, proving that they don't think there is anything wrong with her breasts. In this way, she no longer resisted her boyfriend touching her chest.
4. Make good use of auxiliary equipment.
Sex products and pornographic videos are good tools to increase sexual pleasure, because they can provide many new ideas and increase excitement. For some people, sex products can even solve the problem of uncoordinated sexual life, bring more fun to husband and wife's life and enhance their feelings. Might as well try it properly.
5. Take contraceptive measures.
Contraception is always an inevitable part of sex, and women should pay more attention to it, because once pregnant unexpectedly, all men can give is sympathetic eyes and hugs, and all psychological and physical pains can only be borne by women. Therefore, only by taking contraceptive measures can we enjoy carefree sex and make the love between fish and water more harmonious and wonderful!
Second, two contraceptive methods.
1. Safe period contraception
Comfort is also one of the highest contraceptive methods, which is most popular with men, because you can enjoy a kind of pleasure only in the Garden of Eden while getting used to various contraceptive measures. However, many women are also intoxicated by its "barrier-free contact", but they are always uneasy about its safety. Especially women who win lottery tickets more than twice a year will gradually worry about this way, and their nervousness will be alleviated until the next "old friend" keeps the appointment as scheduled.
Does it mean that the safe period contraceptive method must be unreliable? That's not true. Calculating the failure rate of 20%, there are many reasons for contraceptive failure in safe period, including irregular menstruation, changes in living environment, sharp increase in work pressure or reunion with partners. It will cause the disorder of safety period. And this disorder does not necessarily happen to everyone.
Intimate tip: Many women have a stable living and working environment, and the menstrual cycle of partners who get along with each other day and night is 28 or 30 days every month. Why can't they enjoy safe contraception in a "foolproof" period? If you are not at ease, the success rate of contraception can be improved to the level of male condoms with the help of in vitro fertilization.
Men are not opposed to interrupting sexual intercourse, because it is very exciting to have an "emergency stop" before reaching orgasm like surfing. Many men think that this means that they can put it away freely, which is the embodiment of decisiveness and control.
You don't have to worry that he doesn't want to interrupt sexual intercourse, although he has repeatedly claimed that "this emergency stop is too difficult." But as long as you concentrate, it's not too difficult to do. When asking him to cooperate, don't blame, but persuade. If you are willing to coax him, he will not emphasize that "semen is good for you and is the best beauty product." Besides, it's a safe period!
2. Male condoms
For women, this is a contraceptive method second only to oral contraceptives and safe period contraception. Although your boyfriend complains loudly about "trouble" and "itching", the contraceptive effect of disposable condoms is as high as 99.6%, and its "discomfort" is only a little "slightly spicy" when plastic products rub against the vagina. I believe that men's physiological feelings are the same, and their discomfort is 100% psychological.
Intimate tip: In fact, in the process of contraception, this custom with male feelings as the main body should be changed. Contraception must be dominated by women, because it is they who bear the sexual consequences unilaterally. Wives can find opportunities to talk to their husbands and try to reach an agreement on the use of condoms. Of course, when talking or doing things, don't be "strict with yourself", don't let the other person think that he is doing his duty and making sacrifices unilaterally, but emphasize the benefits of "wearing condoms". A variety of colorful fruit-colored condoms, ultra-thin condoms and concave-convex condoms may bring a gaudy color to the boudoir. The key is how to induce him and finish this vivid foreplay with him.
Facts have proved that as long as they persist, the number of men over 35 who welcome condoms is twice as high as that at the age of 27. With the increase of marriage age, they found that condoms have more and more benefits, such as prolonging ejaculation time and making both sides more satisfied; For example, you don't have to be busy washing sheets after that.