Educators should first study themselves systematically and be prepared in their hearts. In this way, educators can change the most stubborn weaknesses, which are likely to affect their relationship with their children. Educators must learn to look at themselves as others look at us.

Look at yourself.

Educators must learn to look at themselves as others look at us.

Accept guidance

Educators must guide and pay attention to their own problems and bad temper, instead of focusing on children's bad temper and correcting their shortcomings.

Remove the sand from your eyes.

As an educator, only by removing the sand from your eyes can you know how to help children remove the sand from their eyes.

Keep a modest attitude

Educators should keep a modest attitude, eliminate prejudices hidden in their hearts, abandon inner arrogance, anger and other autocracies, and learn to turn themselves into a modest and generous person, so as to get the peace and tranquility needed for education.