Parent-child relationship, as the most important interpersonal relationship in life, has an important influence on its life development. To understand the role of parent-child relationship, we must first understand the characteristics of parent-child relationship. The irreplaceability of parent-child relationship is based on blood relationship, which is innate and irreplaceable, that is, other relationships, such as teacher-student relationship, friend relationship, classmate relationship, husband-wife relationship and so on. , are irreplaceable.

Generally speaking, people can choose their friends and teachers, but they are not free to choose their parents. This is a relationship that cannot be changed according to one's own wishes. This relationship has been established before people are born, and once it is established, it cannot be changed.

Neither side can choose this relationship, and neither parent can choose the characteristics of the child, including psychological characteristics. Whether you agree or not, you must accept this realistic relationship. The persistence of parent-child relationship is the most prominent, which is incomparable to other interpersonal relationships.

Types of parent-child relationship

1, cultivated type. In this parent-child relationship, the main function of parents is to raise children, and other functions are obviously insufficient. The main reason for this parent-child relationship is that the reason why parents can only raise children is entirely due to the environment. Some parents put all their energy into their children's lives, that is, they mainly solve the problem of food and clothing for their children, and have no more time to educate their children.

2. Types of private property. Parents regard their children as their private property, and can manipulate them at will and treat them according to their own views and emotions, such as criticizing, accusing or ordering them at will. Their point of view is: the child is mine, and everything about the child should be listened to by me.

3. Reverse type. In the normal parent-child relationship, parents are in a dominant position, which determines the direction of this relationship. The reverse parent-child relationship depends on children, children are in the dominant position, parents are in the subordinate position, and almost all decisions depend on children, because parents have strong dependence or obvious ability defects.