In fact, parents like to educate their children at the dinner table.
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Many times, what parents say is like words that don't fall to the ground, examples that don't cater to children's daily life, and a lot of their own daily life experience exchanges. Children's verbal logical thinking ability can't understand some abstract sentences with aspect ratio, but parents always love to talk, and sometimes it rises to the level of life and social morality. In fact, talking too much just gives children a kind of pressure.
Scold children, too understand.
Parents' constant table culture education gives people the impression that the most important thing for parents at the table is not the special food in front of them, but the children's difficult personal behavior.
"Happy laughter is the sun at home", which is also Thackeray's famous saying.
However, due to the cultural education at the dinner table, the time that should have been happy has become the most contradictory moment for children. According to the above two lines, everyone can feel a child's sense of oppression in such an area, so there is a reason why children don't like desk education. In addition, table culture education will not only cause children's rejection, but also continue to provide many harmful hazards.
The bad influence of table culture and education causes children's dissatisfaction and harms their appetite and physical and mental health.
Health is the foundation of everything. Without good health, everything is empty, and happiness is a better digestive agent. It means you'd better not talk while eating. On the one hand, it causes esophageal indigestion, on the other hand, the bad mood of discussion will directly affect the mentality.
Damage the feelings of parent-child travel
Among them, Yang Lan also mentioned that eating was the most worrying thing when I was a child. Because of my father's scolding, I often make myself cry while eating at the dinner table. A person who has developed so successfully will cry and be sad because of the inappropriate cultural education produced by his parents when he was a child. Sometimes the passage of time can't cover the wounds left before.
Every parent can't let their children's childhood have this regret. Endanger the feelings of parent-child travel. From this perspective, table education is an educational model advocated by parents, which is not only harmful to the body, but also harmful to the children's feelings.
What can parents discuss with their children at the dinner table?
Talk about something interesting.
Starting with a happy topic is generally not easy to make people feel heavy, especially in the case of relaxing stress such as eating. For example, children can share the interesting stage of some students on campus today, and parents can also respond to some interesting stages to adjust the atmosphere.
At the same time, in the case of maintaining communication, parents must pay special attention not to cut off their children's contact casually, and learn to listen well, so as to live in harmony and open the fortress for their children to talk.
Praise things
This can include praising today's food, or praising the children for doing well. Everyone likes to hear compliments. In this way, praise will warm the love of family members in the world and increase the distance between them.
Parents can also effectively allocate this time to make their children richer and richer. "Children's time should be allocated many attractive theme activities to ensure that children can develop logical thinking and enrich their professional knowledge and work ability without endangering their childhood hobbies." This is also one of Sukhomlinski's classic sentences.