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? Excerpt code: y6cu Title: Difficult conversation: How to get along with picky people happily

Author: [America] Mike bechtel

Translator: In a word

Douban score: 7.5

Media: Beijing Daily/Sunshine Blog

Publication year: 20 17- 1 1

Page count: 232

Content introduction:

Why do we get more picky when we get closer?

Why is it that the more important the relationship, the easier it is for us to ignore it?

Why is it that the more important the conversation, the more we try to avoid it?

Difficult to talk to. Is it Mike? Chatting with Anyone is another best-selling work by Bertrand after Chatting with Anyone.

Chatting with anyone gives introverts and strangers something to talk about, while difficult conversations go further, aiming to help us establish effective communication strategies in important interpersonal relationships.

The book points out that the root of interpersonal problems lies in the fact that people's basic needs are not met. "The basic needs of an independent person are met, which lays the foundation for the formation of healthy interpersonal relationships. People who can't be independent can't be responsible for themselves, and always expect others to meet their own needs. Most of the embarrassment and unhappiness in interpersonal relationships arise from this.

This book classifies people's needs into six categories-safety, adventure, growth, acceptance, relevance and value, which leads to six tools and six skills to help us deal with communication problems.

When we master the right tools and skills, even in the face of difficult conversations, we can stay away from inner fears and frustrations.

About the author:

Mike. Bechtel (Mike bechtel)

Gold medal trainer and best-selling author. He graduated from Arizona State University with a doctorate in education and has many years of working experience in universities and government departments. He is currently a senior training consultant of Franklin Covey (founded by Dr. Stephen R. Covey, the author of Seven Habits of Highly Effective People) and has held more than 2,500 seminars for Fortune 500 companies.

He is the author of best-selling books such as Talk to Anyone, Don't get angry for others, and Difficult Conversations, and has published many articles in famous magazines such as Entrepreneur.

Among them, the Chinese version of Chat with Anyone has been loved by countless media and readers since its listing. Won-

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