I often hear many parents complaining: Why are children so difficult to manage now? It's confusing. What's the matter? Perhaps the answer is: let children, parents should let them come first. See such a picture: in the subway, mother reads a book, the child puts it aside and picks up a book to read; Another mother plays with her mobile phone, and the children watch it together. Such behavior education is accepted by both parents and children. Then show the truth to your parents from their perspective. Children are usually adults, and their psychological and behavioral problems may be related to their parents' behavior and their educational methods. I stared at the parents of the only child, but I didn't notice my mistake.

Interest makes children, you should take the initiative to reduce their mistakes, just children, regardless of yourself. The most likely result of this "double standard" education is that parents are getting more and more headaches and children are getting more and more rebellious. Therefore, a family should educate, not parents. If parents don't manage well, all education is useless. Someone once said, "Don't treat material things as children. If they are full, happy, responsible and have the ability of emotional management, children will imitate you. " . The key to education is parents. It won't be bad if parents are ready. Parents' words and deeds are the "benchmarks" for children.

What kind of person do you want your children to be? Parents should come first. If parents can't control their emotions, they will control themselves and can only copy angry parents. When the parents' reaction is only to control your temper, the emotional needs behind it depend on the children and guide them to know and manage their emotions. Therefore, children can learn to empathize with their parents' understanding and acceptance. Parents are only the first impulse to determine that you want to play games, and reserve the will to play mobile phones. Children can be self-disciplined under the influence of their parents.

Netizen replied: For decades, my dad got up at 6: 30 every day and read books. And my mother, as long as they are free, will also pick up books to read. Every day after dinner, parents always meet to play ball or run in the open space downstairs, and the family always likes to exchange the benefits of activities. It was several years before I liked these efforts, especially the education of my parents. In the past, I didn't show up in the morning. People were very tired when reading, and I was lazy when exercising. But when I saw my parents still insisting, I suddenly felt that getting up early was very painful. Reading didn't seem so difficult, and exercising became a daily habit. Educators say: "Family is a school of habit, and parents are teachers of habit. Every child is born with an imitator. It is difficult to train children, but parents themselves will not give up, and children will grow in their parents' footsteps. The principal said: "Instead of letting children spend time and energy every day trying to control every second of their growth, it is better for parents to do their own things well."

After you had children, many parents scrimped and saved, paid a lot, and had no children. This is because it is difficult for parents who give up self-growth to actively influence their children, and children are so lacking in upward motivation. Education is teaching first, then teaching. Because the first tube and the tube. Only when we become better ourselves can we guide our children to become better people. I hope all parents and children can become leaders, grow up together and be warm together.